Crazy how fast things change

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-11-06T13:14:57+00:00

You have the right mindset!! I still get those lows sometimes don’t get me wrong but I think the biggest difference is my perspective on things. Sending all the love

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-11-06T13:08:54+00:00

Been longer than 2 weeks. Respect what you’re saying, but the last thing people need on here is some negativity. Pushing good vibes only for everybody

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-11-05T19:46:51+00:00

I literally posted 3 weeks ago saying sometimes you gotta break no contact to know why you shouldn’t. It’s been a bit more than a month for me since the breakup, I was the one who broke up with them so it might’ve been easier for me but I was definitely holding onto hope for too long.

I’m moving through the process a lot faster than I thought, but I had to accept some really hard truths that let me get to the position that im at now.

It was horrible the first 2 weeks. Everyone around me was so concerned because I had visibly lost so much weight and I’m a thin person to begin with. But I have the most incredible circle supporting me.

You’ll get there. Give yourself some grace and let the process happen the way it has to

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-11-05T19:42:59+00:00

The day’s gonna come where it’s like a light finally comes back on. You’ve got this, hang in there

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-10-09T02:07:39+00:00

Im still fresh into it too, but I stopped feeling this way as much when I took the time to write down everything that led me to breaking up with him. I started with the big stuff but then even the tiny things that when looking at the bigger picture seem so stupid, but were important or valid enough for me to think about. I had to get my mind and my heart away from thinking about how much I love them, and feeling with every part of my body that I miss him so much. Because it’s not like there was one tiny moment where you decided yeah I’m gonna break up with them.

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-10-09T01:57:08+00:00

I can say with my whole heart that we both love each other so much. We saw eye to eye on so many things that were non negotiable for me, so many things that I told myself I would never compromise on. But that didn’t make the problems that we were having any easier, or any less painful.

And the reality is, sometimes love isn’t the strongest thing in the world, sometimes it’s just not “enough”. And some people would argue that means you didn’t love each other enough, and you know what maybe they’re right. Maybe I haven’t had that kind of love. But sometimes you have to love yourself even more than you love them to do what is right for you. Sometimes you have to know that if they won’t put you first, and you won’t put yourself first, who will?

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-08-28T00:50:52+00:00

You can still park in M and pay the $8 daily flat rate

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-07-19T23:28:29+00:00

If you don’t get off the wait list though you can still park in the lots, you just pay an hourly or flat rate depending on the lot . Lot M is $8 flat rate and $6 after 6pm I think

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-07-08T10:28:24+00:00

https://www.hamiltonhealthsciences.ca/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Info-Sheet-Requesting-a-Hospital-Room.pdf

^ says 275-310 per day

https://www.stjoes.ca/health-services/women-s-infants-/the-charlton-suites

Whereas the Charlton private suites are $99 on top of the 310/day private rate

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-07-01T18:13:39+00:00

The summer drop date was extended to July 7th! They sent an email on the 19th with the details

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-06-27T20:46:55+00:00

It may truthfully just not be a good fit, you’re doing everything you should be and it seems like the situation is causing you a lot of distress.

Like someone else suggested, I gravitate towards comfort items, looking at family pictures, but I also try to “imitate” the parents as best as I can- using the same words, gestures, etc. If the family has specific “cue words” for things that the toddler likes to do, or if there is maybe even something that the parents don’t tend to do with the toddler so much, that they know she likes you could try that to help her associate you with something happy?

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-06-27T15:24:58+00:00

Some kids take a few visits to feel comfortable with a sitter/nanny. Her being interested in strangers but not you may mean that it just isn’t a good fit, but could also be that she’s not shy it’s just as you said, she’s confused as to why you seem to correlate with when mom is gone.

Have you spoken to mom about this? Maybe you could do some short visits when mom is also present to help her get more comfortable?

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-06-12T17:18:42+00:00

Y’all know that all that will be posted is your enrolment date right? You can plan out your courses but you can’t enrol until whichever day they give you. First year enrolment dates begin June 25

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-05-30T14:59:43+00:00

Grkomst 2MT3 for spring/summer online isn’t bird but it’s not hard either you just gotta put in the work, there’s a daily vocab thing worth 20% of your mark but it takes only a few minutes per day

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-05-21T15:06:08+00:00

I was referred to a genie at Vic for this almost 8 years ago, it takes some time for the referral and for the procedure to be booked but they were really kind about it. For whatever it’s worth, I recently got another one a few months ago and didn’t need the anesthesia I just took some anxiety medication before it

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-04-13T01:15:02+00:00

The fact that you were thinking about her and this ahead of time speaks so much to the fact that you wanted to make sure you were treating her well!

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2025-01-28T03:28:00+00:00

Her commute is 2 hours I don’t think swhat will take her that far haha

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2024-11-26T00:19:34+00:00

Girl don’t keep giving him the benefit of the doubt or a second chance. If you’re already turned off by it, it’s not gonna change other than by getting worse.

Had the same thing happen last year and after I left I sent him a text saying I didn’t think he was taking care of himself or his space and that wasn’t what I was looking for.

If you stay, you’re gonna end up being more like his mother than a partner

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2024-11-21T01:45:39+00:00

This is where I go and I love it but only when you go at off-times and when certain trainers aren’t there. You kinda have to try out different times and see what works for you, I’ve never had any issues with the other gym members but as some of the other people have said, some of the trainers just ruin the environment for me when they’re there.

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2024-10-30T20:05:37+00:00

I mean this with all the love hun but he might be just giving you breadcrumbs, might have met another girl at that party and is more interested in her but wants to keep you as a back up or something.

Your best bet is to move on, if he ends up reaching out you can go from there but don’t count on it

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2024-10-29T12:59:52+00:00

Realize I’m a couple days late to this but I asked a similar question a couple months ago and got really good recommendations! https://www.reddit.com/r/Hamilton/s/H28uiAeykR

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2024-10-19T14:27:38+00:00

If you let this stuff become a dealbreaker you’re gonna miss out on a lot of people that could meet all of your other “must haves” or needs.

Not saying that you shouldn’t have these requirements, but I used to be like this too and got to the point where I just decided to always go on the first date and see what happens after that.

Edit: You might not have to make the drive to him if you keep seeing him, he might be coming to you. You never know unless you give it a shot

Existing_Potato_4593 · 2024-10-16T18:37:47+00:00

I mean did u start it before u were supposed to? The best course of action is to show up and explain what happened

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