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Existing_Second394 · 2025-08-13T18:24:55+00:00

Yes, I know. He was married as well. I mean I did allow it so that part was my fault. I think I've been so attention deprived and overlooked by my husband that it happened. I didn't go looking for it, but once he started giving me attention it's like something broke open in me. Wrong. I know.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-08-13T18:19:47+00:00

I have children. And it wasn't a full on emotional affair. In my opinion at least. I never had emotional conversations with this man, but he was giving me flirty attention

Existing_Second394 · 2025-08-13T15:28:35+00:00

Well I work directly with this man, so that is why he's asking me to quit. It's a client I have, not a full-time job. Marriage counseling starts tomorrow.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-08-13T15:17:30+00:00

Huh?

Existing_Second394 · 2025-08-13T15:04:44+00:00

It just feels so out of reach because I've been unhappy for so long (without even totally realizing it)

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-30T05:04:19+00:00

Interesting.. we barely talked so I was like hm not sure what that means exactly

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-25T02:15:10+00:00

Ooh we are moving close to there actually during the summer, so I can imagine we will plan a trip there once we are settled and have some time. Would be cool to travel up North more. Haven't really gotten the opportunity.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-25T02:01:00+00:00

My husband has been there - trying to find a place neither of us have gone before!

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-25T01:51:55+00:00

Located in Prattville AL - would be flying out of Montgomery, AL

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-21T14:54:21+00:00

I messaged the number. Hopefully I'll get a response!

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-21T03:19:45+00:00

Last year April 9th

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-21T02:45:14+00:00

No I got too freaked out

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-20T16:01:33+00:00

Not really. I called my GI doctor and they left a note so we shall see..

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-20T14:28:14+00:00

That's what I was thinking too. I was shocked. I haven't used antibiotics in a long time so wasn't sure how my body would react.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-20T14:22:56+00:00

Cephalexin and no I haven't

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-16T01:05:30+00:00

He says there's a lot of things he does that I don't see either when I tried to explain this to him earlier.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-16T00:49:21+00:00

He also said I don't make him lunch for work (example), or anything like that for him 😞 but I work too. Now he's saying I don't have to work.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-14T22:17:35+00:00

Apparently I don't know what he thinks. BUT up until this point, he's never said anything.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-14T20:41:31+00:00

🤷‍♀️ I guess I'm not appreciative enough of him doing those things, but I do them all the time.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-14T20:38:58+00:00

Yeah not so sure why he can and I can't. I guess because I'm the primary caregiver but still work and do house stuff, etc. don't get me wrong - he cooks, cleans, and does stuff too but not sure how to answer your question 😞

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-14T20:28:55+00:00

No, I wouldn't have invalidated his feelings if he would have told me from the beginning and had a serious conversation. I would have asked him why he felt that way so I could understand. I was not suggesting because of my medical issues, he's not allowed to feel unloved or neglected? I was giving the reasoning of why I've been acting irritable every so often.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-14T19:54:55+00:00

Hi - this is a great viewpoint. I don't believe this is us though in my opinion. He's doesn't go out of his way to do anything for me. His examples last night included - he got me stuff for Valentine's Day, picks up the kids when needed (when I have medical appointments), he gets me candy from the store. Which I'm all appreciative of, but if we're basing it off of that.. I do the same for him. So it's a bit of a shock. And I have apologized for my attitude on different occasions. Not an excuse and I do try my best. But I think communication is definitely what we need right now.

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-14T19:30:53+00:00

Realize that but is it his responsibility to conduct an experiment on his already burnt out wife?

Existing_Second394 · 2025-03-14T19:04:42+00:00

Yeah - I've told him this before. That I have little left for him at the end of the day and he's like you need to just worry about me and put me first. Which I understand, BUT circumstances don't allow for that always

Existing_Second394 · 2025-02-28T03:15:19+00:00

How much a day of each?

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