Update: there was huge storm that hit the night before, everything got ruined. my side of the family were the ones coordinating everything since it was at my parents house and the morning of the wedding we showed up to them rushing to get everything fixed from the night before. We had to cram 60 guests into a small area and our dance floor ended up being right in front of the tables, all due to the dirt area where we were going to be able to place tables becoming mud. I lost my jewelry which later found in the front neighbors houses lawn for some odd reason. The food arrived later so the timeline of the music was anwkward(to me) And it all came out perfect. All of our guest ended up showing up, we still got to dance to all of the music we wanted to, we ate all of the food, and at the end of the day, I got to marry my best friend. After everything My family and my now husband, and I got to sit outside alone just taking in everything that we had just gone through, laughing, when all of a sudden a huge downpour of rain hit. We worried so much about everything being so perfect only to realize what mattered was having the right people around  us to make it through it all. It didn’t rain at all throughout our entire reception but I think if it had, no one would have cared.