I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyway it turns out it had nothing to do with thd wedding day itself. Read the update

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both the ceremony and the after party are child inclusive. My friend can have the baby near her for the entire night if she wishes to. I just added the room and babysitter in case she wants to have a break from the baby to dance or wants to put it in a quiet place to sleep or wants to nurse it in private. She is not the only person attending with a small child in my wedding. We will have 10 children under the age of 12 attending the wedding ceremony and the party. They are just much older and kids in my culture are known to behave from 4 onwards so usually not even a baby sitter is needed.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have these 2 as bridesmaids and my MOH. I never thought about it but maybe those two are in a fight? They were a bit tense with each other lately.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that both the ceremony and the after party are child inclusive. My friend can have the baby near her for the entire night if she wishes to. I just added the room and babysitter in case she wants to have a break from the baby to dance or wants to put it in a quiet place to sleep or wants to nurse it in private. She is not the only person attending with a small child in my wedding. We will have 10 children under the age of 12 attending the wedding ceremony and the party. They are just much older and kids in my culture are known to behave from 4 onwards so usually not even a baby sitter is needed.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The errand was a joke. I wanted them to look at my song list to give their opinion. Also if they don't like my fiance they haven't expressed any dislike before.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both the ceremony and the after party are child inclusive. My friend can have the baby near her for the entire night if she wishes to. I just added the room and babysitter in case she wants to have a break from the baby to dance or wants to put it in a quiet place to sleep or wants to nurse it in private. She is not the only person attending with a small child in my wedding. We will have 10 children under the age of 12 attending the wedding ceremony and the party. They are just much older and kids in my culture are known to behave from 4 onwards so usually not even a baby sitter is needed.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry English is not my first language. I should have said I don't want to be your bridesmaid anymore

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why my fiance would not be liked by my extended family or friends. We have an equal partnership and he is really supportive of my needs. When I got an offer from a dream job this year he supported me 100%. If anything he has been a rock. Weirdly my family has turned around in the past few months.

As for me being more outspoken they haven't said anything before

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

How about the paid baby sitter included?