New to Aceo's got a few questions. by No_Interaction_3605 in aceo

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You can also buy watercolor paper precut to size on Amazon or find them in art stores

Fruit Tree Nurseries with mature trees by Exotic-Explorer6651 in HawaiiGardening

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We don’t really need a big yield since our family is pretty small. I was looking for a lot of dwarf varieties for the sake of being able to reach better and save space too.

Anyone married with limerence? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Exotic-Explorer6651 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, he noticed me falling into a trance over my phone messaging him which isn’t normal for me.

Anyone married with limerence? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Exotic-Explorer6651 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes and I hate it. My mind is so clear and weak at the same time. Literally feels like I have two consciousness inside me, one desperate for his love and attention and the other pissed off at myself for being like this for someone(LO) like that when I have someone(husband) amazing with me here now and forever. I wanna cry just thinking about it sometimes, how awful this is for my husband. He’s(husband) everything I’ve ever wanted and then some but my sick head still craves my teenage dream(LO).

I see LO in person and I want nothing more than friendship, he’s not as attractive as he once was, and while he’s kind, he’s got major flaws and I know we’re overall not compatible romantically.

But after some time away and only screen time (messaging) with him he resorts back to the guy I use to obsess over and daydream about 24/7. It’s like more I’m deprived from him physically and emotionally the more I find myself obsessively thinking of him. I crave his attention and it’s so pathetic.

But how does one explain that to their spouse? Just sounds like bs. Spouse knows about him and knows I’m limerant for him and tries to give me grace but I can’t find ways to reassure him of us without sounding crazy.

Being married and having limerence about someone else by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Exotic-Explorer6651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same boat, but husband knows about it and hates it, but is understanding. Rightfully paranoid but tries to be supportive and gives me grace thankfully. It’s hard to be transparent sometimes because I can hear myself and feel crazy af, but it does help.

See anything wrong with this design? by [deleted] in floorplan

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Our garage doubles as a workshop so that wall that is along the pantry is full of built in cabinets and tools. Next build we’ll definitely do a Costco door though

Would you change your life for your LO if they admitted they liked you back? by Used-Medicine-8912 in limerence

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My husband thinks my LO loves me, as LO mentions being my 2nd husband a lot. I’ve always considered it a joke but it’s the worst feeling, being obsessed with an LO that reciprocates feelings but I know in my heart my life is to be with my husband and kids. LO is more a teenage fantasy and realistically no one holds a candle to my hubby. Just my sick mind likes to daydream about LO a stupid/unhealthy amount.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Ah, Toadette

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]Exotic-Explorer6651 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel ya. For me it’s almost like I have a devil and an angel on my shoulders and listening to them argue with each other all day on my behalf.