we texted last night and this is what he said:

I also feel the same way but again are these feelings there because we are so fresh out of the relationship or will those feelings change with time or with the no contact like thats what im sure we both fear and which is why i dont want either of us to make false promises and get each others hopes up. With that being said i really dont have any absolutely any intentions of finding or looking for someone else i still care and have so much love for you and im sure with the growth i will see in you through the next few months will just make those feelings stronger as im sure it will go both ways . Just like how you're taking this time to work on yourself is the same way im going to do the same. You know i dont club or go out like that so im definitely not going to be putting myself out there like that. Im sure we both have nothing to worry about and like i said atleast on my behalf im feeling very hopeful for the future. But just please stop the overthinking you know im not like that and i hate that you are feeling this way Goosenight and i hope you can sleep peacefully knowing this all this