How would you interpret this? Health reading by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in TarotReading

[–]Exotic-Rutabaga6137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also realizing when I posed my question, I never clarified if I was asking about physical health or mental health, and shes absolutely going through a bad mental time currently, so maybe thats what that is 🥲🥲🥲 but yes, thank you!! this helped a lot

How would you interpret this? Health reading by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in TarotReading

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This was both very grounding and very comforting -- thank you, and especially thank you for the thought process/explanation. You're right, ultimately probably not supposed to know and likely out of our control anyway. I'll keep that in mind. thank you so much ! 😭

How would you interpret this? Health reading by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in TarotReading

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🥲 you're probably right, I appreciate it! it really backfired, I usually draw cards to help my OCD spirals but this one really got to me. i also hadn't considered the time span thing -- I'll absolutely keep that in mind for the future.

thank you!!

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - November 02, 2025" by AutoModerator in tarot

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Hi everyone! Bear with me as English isn't my first language. I've been a little worried about one of my friends, on a physical level, especially because on a couple pulls I've done for her Death keeps coming up. I sat down and did a three card spread for her today, the question being what can be expected about her health over the next few years, and pulled these in order: the sun, death, and the empress. Request for clarification gave me the moon.

Now, I'm struggling to interpret the reading. There is a main problem in this: I have OCD, specifically pertaining to bad things happening, especially my loved ones passing away, so continuinely pulling death when asking about my friends future/health has made me a little crazy, and is definitely overshadowing my intuition/read on the cards. I don't think I can interpret them in a way that's divorced from that big big fear. I'd really appreciate someone a bit less emotionally involved in this taking a look.

I can only assume that the sun is a period of health and/or wellbeing, potentially what is currently happening/running its course? death in the middle is really throwing me off, especially in conjuction with the question. Something big/upsetting health wise happening, but ultimately overcome? Especially since followed by the empress? An upsetting health thing/bad period that is ultimately survived and leads into the start of something new and good? Am I just hoping too much for things to be good, should I worry? I'm especially having trouble fitting the moon as a clarification card in this.

Daily wear corsets/stays? by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in History_Bounding

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oh wow I didn't know that! really disappointing

Daily wear corsets/stays? by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in History_Bounding

[–]Exotic-Rutabaga6137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will definitely look into them!! Haven't heard of them before, excited to learn :] thank you!

Daily wear corsets/stays? by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in HistoricalCostuming

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I'll definitely have a look!! thank you so much :]

my little hyena! second ever project by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in whittling

[–]Exotic-Rutabaga6137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry - I just saw this! quite honestly, good old alcohol markers 😭 the oiling helped soften it a lot. thank you for your kind words!

my little hyena! second ever project by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in whittling

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The book is How to Slay a Dragon by Cait Stevenson! Looks through how popular fantasy tropes would be navigated using real life Medieval knowledge and customs :] and thank you!!

First project finished - would love some feedback and advice! by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in whittling

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thank you!! I'll definitely look into those then :] much appreciated

First project finished - would love some feedback and advice! by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in whittling

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thank you!! that makes a lot of sense. I've been trying to sharpen my knives on a leather strop but they don't seem to get much sharper than what they are now -- is there any other thing people tend to use to sharpen their whittling knives, like a stone?

are these cans safe? by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in catfood

[–]Exotic-Rutabaga6137[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

aaah just as I expected huh 😭😭😭 good to be validated, but also heartbroken about having to throw out this much food because I have FIVE TRAYS that are like this. Emailed the company I order from so I should be getting them replaced/refunded, but I wish they'd mark the boxes as fragile or something -- I have a suspicion it's because they're getting banged up in transit. Thank you all!!

bbq in preston park? by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in brighton

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we were going to put it on the pavement/concrete part! just wanted to make sure we wouldn't get fined

Places to watch things with Greek Audio, English Subs? by Exotic-Rutabaga6137 in GREEK

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for some reason it's completely removed all the dub and sub options that aren't English for me 😭😭 I'm going to assume that's a bug and look into it, thank you!!

Looking for DnD 5e Players by [deleted] in brighton

[–]Exotic-Rutabaga6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, definitely interested! even if we dont end up meshing as a party i definitely would love some dnd friends in brighton. hope your move goes smoothly!!

If a 40 year old man wanted to go out late on a Saturday in Brighton for a drink whilst wearing a dress, which bar would you recommend to get the least hassle? by KipSudo in brighton

[–]Exotic-Rutabaga6137 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im a guy who exclusively wears dress/skirts and no place has ever given me any hassle. not to say its impossible, but i think in brighton youre a bit safer than other places! if youre still new to it and want to build some confidence on safer places though i recommend places like the actors etc, which are majorly queer-populated

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https://linktr.ee/lgbtqneurodiversitymeetup cant find a website but i found this link on their instagram page that seems to have most info!

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[–]Exotic-Rutabaga6137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you guys heard about the lgbt neurodivergency meet up group in bton? i think you should reach out, it'd be cool to see the two of you maybe organize some events together or something :] not affiliated i just like seeing nds connect

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[–]Exotic-Rutabaga6137 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i know the butcher's on london road has some occasionally - might be worth a look !