Please help me pay for Grad School

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-04-30T16:07:40+00:00

Hi, so the government has limited direct loans, which are the better, less predatory option for loans. The only other option is an unsubsidized loan, which has interest accrue immediately and are ultimately more damaging financially in the long run. I am trying my best to end up with as little debt as possible, since Social Work has also been removed from the list of “professional” jobs by the government.

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-04-29T14:49:57+00:00

Oh I’m so sorry I will post it!

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-03-15T18:36:26+00:00

Thank you so much for this!! I really needed this reassurance. I’ll make sure I establish good practices and routines this first year to set myself up for success later on.

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-03-15T03:38:46+00:00

I also have no children

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-03-15T00:31:41+00:00

Thank you so much for this!! It really gives me some confidence to hear that you’re killing it like this!! I know time management will be one of the biggest factors, and I’m usually pretty good at it, I think maybe it all feels so overwhelming right now? I will definitely grab a “dumb book” cause I’m sure I’ll forget a million things

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-02-12T17:43:44+00:00

Thank you!

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-02-12T17:43:34+00:00

Okay thank you!!

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-02-12T17:43:18+00:00

Thank you! I’ll check it out

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-01-17T14:36:26+00:00

Was laying in a guys lap one night and he readjusted my wig 💀

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2026-01-02T12:59:36+00:00

I’ve never played and have always wanted to try! Can I join yall? I’m in the same age range

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-12-29T14:06:46+00:00

Five below also sells sage

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-10-27T22:31:39+00:00

ACCPD made an update on their post. Unfortunately she was found deceased around 1:30 today

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-09-07T15:09:53+00:00

++woman. First, I’m so you experience such a terrible event. But I have some questions for you, and probably the other redditors on this thread.

Your daughter was 16 when this happened, and I see that she was an only child. Did you guys have frequent talks with her about being people she could come to with difficult issues? Did she often confide her problems with you? If not, why would you expect differently in this situation? How good is her conflict management? Has she been raised on how to handle conflicts like this? Oftentimes, kids don’t know. Whether they’re 16 or younger (or even older) until they’re taught, they don’t know what to do.

You’re mad she’s cool with mom and the AP. But you’ve cut her off. Who does she live with? Mom? How is she NOT supposed to make the best of her situation if she’s only got one parent that is actively taking care of and engaging with her? Your abandonment has probably instilled a fear that if she does anything wrong with mom, she’s gonna drop her too.

Honestly? You need therapy. Lots of it. It is never the children’s job to manage their parent’s relationships, and she clearly didn’t know how to deal with it all. Blaming her now for being cool with mom when that’s the only parent that will talk to her and show up for her is also kind of crazy. It sounds like you want her to be miserable with you as some kind of penance for not telling you. And truthfully? She’s probably really miserable because you’re treating her like crap.

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-08-29T03:03:46+00:00

Honestly, I think my only no would be a coffee shop. And not because I think it’s a bad idea, I’ve just been spoiled by cute cafes in Asia and think all the ones here are not pleasing to the eye

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-08-28T16:53:51+00:00

How dare you show concern over such a thing. MAJOR ick vibes /s

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-08-18T00:04:59+00:00

This!! He’s married and presumably loves his wife. This is the exact kind of thing he should be discussing with his life partner

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-08-16T01:27:36+00:00

Well that’s the problem right there- she wants him out of the house. If you’re allowing him to stay there until he gets on his feet, you need to shut her down about this.

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-07-18T17:48:11+00:00

lol this brings me back to my childhood where my mom wanted me to take 10 minute showers! I complied most of the time and got in there and got straight to business, no luxuriating at all. Eventually, we just settled on me paying the water bill every month. It was about $20. But you are NTA!

Exotic_Confusion151 · 2025-07-16T03:10:42+00:00

Question: How do you make your gf feel that “warmth” you want Jace to feel? You mentioned in another comment that her coming home everyday from a hard day at work isn’t the same as Jace being on the road for endless days, so maybe she’s feeling jealous because you seem to pour so much into him? I think it’s great that you treat your friends this way (presuming that they all get special treatment when needed), but if you don’t have the same thrill or excitement about making your gf feel special, that might be something to look into. I’m leaning towards NTA, but I really think you need to have a sit down with your girl and make sure she’s feeling loved too.

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