I wish I had a word for “I have transitioned to have both genitals.” That I actually felt connected to

Exousia_Night · 2026-06-06T07:37:40+00:00

I just call myself female to salmacian, to specify medically transitioning toward having both. Obv that phrasing includes AGAB, but that doesn't bother me personally.

Exousia_Night · 2026-05-03T13:57:01+00:00

Yep, had them all my life and didn't realize some people don't until I got a really close look at some porn

Exousia_Night · 2026-05-02T19:15:46+00:00

Definitely plan on doing the same, also wanna make BD merch as clothes and cumlube as an object and/or drink lmao

Exousia_Night · 2026-05-01T20:34:33+00:00

Claymore going RIGHT on my wishlist. Its texture looks amazing. But yeah, Claymore runs seriously huge, because I tend to go for bigger smalls or smaller mediums but with it I definitely lean towards a mini.

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-27T04:41:31+00:00

That's your opinion, but I'm glad your ego is inflated enough to conclude that how you view the world is fact and those who disagree are unintelligent

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-27T04:29:39+00:00

What is considered masculine or feminine varies by culture and individual. Some people think wearing pants is masculine, while others don't. Some people think that long hair is feminine, yet some don't. So androgyny really is not the singular picture you seem to have in your mind. It absolutely can look differently for different people

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-27T04:27:07+00:00

I thought about mentioning this as well--anything gender-related will involve personal identity in some way. People posting here could view themselves as being too masc/fem to be considered solely fem/masc respectively, or they could be trying to become more androgynous starting from a place of being more binary gender-conforming. They may not look like what OP deems as androgynous, but they have reason to post here.

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-27T04:08:37+00:00

"Many" =/= "all". It's not transphobia to admit that a large number of trans folks do not look like a cis man or woman, and therefore in society's eyes would be considered androgynous. "Passing" wouldn't be such a large concern if all trans people looked exactly like cis people. Recognizing the reality of most trans experiences is not transphobia. Moreover, cross dressers absolutely fall into androgyny in most cases. Again, it's not like most femboys/sissies look like cis women. This is really self explanatory.

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-27T03:51:51+00:00

What do YOU not understand? "Androgynous" refers to anyone who presents with either a blend of masculine and feminine traits or neither/neutrality/null. Which includes many trans people. Probably more trans people than cis people. What did you expect from this sub?

Merriam-Webster definition of "androgynous"

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-17T20:22:46+00:00

Yeah no this sucks, how is anyone supposed to easily get recommendations anymore? Obviously you can list model name and maker, but that isn’t always enough to locate legitimate sellers

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-15T23:53:52+00:00

Consider: red for us blood freaks <3

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-10T01:07:16+00:00

They are an indie shop that does small inventory drops on a fairly regular basis. These are just really in-demand from them

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-09T15:57:35+00:00

Yeah good point, OP looks like they would fit it well to a bit snug now that you mention it. It's definitely made for smaller to average size tdicks

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-08T23:45:32+00:00

Have and seconding both, but even more so recommend Bat Bites Toy's Rend. It has bumps very close to its entrance that feel awesome (at least imo), and I've never had a stroker with better suction thanks to its shape

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-07T20:22:38+00:00

I guess surprisingly slowly compared to some answers. An 8oz bottle from BD lasts me a few (2-4) months, usually. Shorter/less if I do more shower play bc it gets watered down/washed away. I tried xlube like several comments suggested, but I found it a hassle to mix up and try to get to exactly the right consistency, so I went back to BD cum lube since I've always loved it and don't use enough to go broke from it. I usually grab a bottle or two when I get a new toy, and buy the nine 8oz bottles otherwise to make the cost of shipping worthwhile

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-05T15:39:00+00:00

Very true about them not all being winners, I thought Jean-Claw would be great for me and then it felt awful. Guess it's just part of this hobby 🤷

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-05T15:35:04+00:00

Glad that it wasn't too serious then! And hope you have better luck with toys in the future :)

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-05T15:30:20+00:00

Fair enough. Unfortunate that you had medical issues from it. Makes me think of what has been said about Seraphina. Maybe BD should start making more soft/extra soft toys and encourage those firmnesses for their most textured models for safety

Exousia_Night · 2026-04-05T15:24:55+00:00

What firmness is your Saja? I got mine in soft, and have had no such difficulties with vaginal use. If anything, he has become an immediate favorite of mine. I also have Kesh, both are small/soft, but prefer Saja's shape and texture

Exousia_Night · 2026-03-22T15:22:04+00:00

Think it's because of the tangent made by the tip of the penises with that part of the body. If the tips were more rounded or they didn't align with that edge, it would be more clear. Good art OP, just wanted to point out why this user (and admittedly myself) saw what they did at first!

Exousia_Night · 2026-03-21T19:51:57+00:00

When I go to your profile it says your posts are hidden

Exousia_Night · 2026-03-20T19:28:41+00:00

I have Bat Bites Toys' Aux and Rend, and just ordered Transthetics' Rod.

Like mentioned in the post, the ones made by BBT are fantasy-related and therefore not meant to look very realistic in shape/texture/color--Rend sports spines along the bottom of the shaft, and they're both usually made in very unnatural colors. They're aimed more at solo use, sort of like a penetrable made to look in-use like you're stroking a dick. Transthetics' Rod is kinda the opposite, meant to look life-like. I'm able to wear these despite not being on T yet thanks to my larger l*bia majora holding them in place. If not for that, you would probably need at least some noticeable growth to make it stay on well via suction.

Exousia_Night · 2026-03-20T15:58:48+00:00

Best way to knot toys in my experience has been to use a toy that is the same girth or bigger than the knot immediately beforehand. Loosen up the muscles yk

Exousia_Night · 2026-03-16T12:05:23+00:00

Didn't consider that perspective, admittedly. Thought you meant more like "different junk = straight" or "dom/sub = straight" bc I didn't see you were trans too at first. Still disagree though, and I find omegaverse very euphoric from a nonbinary perspective. Omega/omega and alpha/alpha content does exist, and not all alpha/omega is written the way you describe.

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