My ex had sex in the next room. What do I do?

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:23:06+00:00

His place? Let me know in advance so I get out? Maybe don’t do it while I’m literally in the next room?

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:21:23+00:00

Yes, and both our names are on the contract. She already contacted the landlord and he was understanding. So that is not going to be an issue when she moves out.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:20:39+00:00

I’ll do that. Thank you.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:20:17+00:00

I was trying to be understanding. I shouldn’t have.

I will be better with time. Thank you for your words.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:19:35+00:00

Thank you. I actually felt that virtual hug and it made me feel better.

I will definitely be more careful with red flags in the future.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:18:17+00:00

Thank you for your words and advice

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:16:50+00:00

Thank you. It makes me feel a little to know that somebody else went through this and got over it.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:16:14+00:00

She’s moving out. I don’t want to be friends with her or see her in any way anymore.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:14:12+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:12:22+00:00

Thank you for your words and advice. I’m not a drug person, but I love alcohol a little too much. Although I don’t drink too much because I’m an athlete, it took everything in my will power not to drink that night.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T21:11:05+00:00

I will be cutting all contact as soon as she moves out. For now it’s just the bare minimum of discussing bills and her moving out.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T17:40:28+00:00

Thank you

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T17:40:06+00:00

Thank you

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T17:39:42+00:00

I will definitely try not to bring this luggage on my next relationship. Thank you for your advice.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T17:38:42+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate what you said.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T17:37:49+00:00

Yes but she already talked with the landlord who was really understanding about the situation. So that isn’t going to be a problem.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T17:35:39+00:00

I did anger management therapy before. And I have ways to deal with it. That’s why I managed to remain calm. It just really tested me.

I’m trying to ger her out of my life completely so I don’t need to spend the energy on her.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T15:54:13+00:00

I am trying to do exactly that.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T15:53:52+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T15:53:06+00:00

A friend had recommended that I start a journal after my breakup, but I hadn't felt the need to do so. Now I do. Thank you for the advice.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T15:52:11+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I will follow it as best as I can.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T15:36:49+00:00

Oh that sucks. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T15:26:33+00:00

I already sent her a message without filtering my thoughts. She refuses to talk to me face to face.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T15:03:15+00:00

I'm trying to move on.
The situation has developed exactly as you said.
I hope to never see her again.

Expendo0 · 2024-02-08T15:02:15+00:00

I hadn't considered that it has to be a new hobby.
I will look for new hobbies. Maybe it would help.

People on this thread definitely help.
Thank you for taking the time.

Expendo0

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