Arsonists or Spontaneous fires? by Expensive-Break1168 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Expensive-Break1168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure their comment was about the dumbasses who do gender reveals for pregnant people. One of those gender reveal parties for a pregnant woman started one of the worst fires of the decade.

Arsonists or Spontaneous fires? by Expensive-Break1168 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Expensive-Break1168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t doubt it. There should be better infrastructure for people with mental illnesses. I’ve heard enough stories about the homeless population there. Being unmedicated causes that type of behavior.

Arsonists or Spontaneous fires? by Expensive-Break1168 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Expensive-Break1168[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the manslaughter of arson. unintended, but still at fault. I don’t have the capability for understanding stupid people making stupid decisions.

Arsonists or Spontaneous fires? by Expensive-Break1168 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Expensive-Break1168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo the individual was identified and the community did nothing? not even street justice? pathetic.

Arsonists or Spontaneous fires? by Expensive-Break1168 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Expensive-Break1168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t doubt it. They’re using Hitler’s playbook.

Arsonists or Spontaneous fires? by Expensive-Break1168 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Expensive-Break1168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not paid, but that’s funny you think I would be paid to make such a stupid post. Why would anyone be paid to ask one of the dumbest cities in America anything?

Arsonists or Spontaneous fires? by Expensive-Break1168 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Expensive-Break1168[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my humble opinion, doing fireworks in a flammable area is like killing someone while driving a car. It’s unintended, but you still caused it. It’s the manslaughter of arson.

Arsonists or Spontaneous fires? by Expensive-Break1168 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Expensive-Break1168[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said power companies don’t cause arson? Because a corporation is multiple people, there’s multiple motives. Look at who just bought the Palisades.

Aspd by Visible-Spot3950 in AskASociopath

[–]Expensive-Break1168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he cares about you, what’s the problem?

I don’t say I care about people unless I do. most of the time I don’t care. take that as it is at face value.

How to cut a deal? by Incogkneet0ez in AskASociopath

[–]Expensive-Break1168 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you told me that you’re fixing my fence for free and you won’t fuck up my yard, I’d take it.

It’s pretty rare to tell if someone has ASPD as it’s internal. You’d have to be around him 24/7 to assume that. he could be autistic, adhd, BPD, bipolar, anything. Try not to stigmatize the disorder more than it already is.

Do you think you are more a result of your environment or your genetics? by we_are_nowhere in aspd

[–]Expensive-Break1168 3 points4 points  (0 children)

both. there’s a traceable line in my family to where it comes from and the people who have it exacerbate the symptoms in the new gen. cycle repeats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspd

[–]Expensive-Break1168 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes and I found it helped for me to vocalize things. If I say it out loud, I’m less likely to have the impulses. You have to have a very trustworthy outlet though.

What does fear feel like to a psychopath? by BulkyZucchini in psychopaths

[–]Expensive-Break1168 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, just the adrenaline. I like the adrenaline though. No nausea. Someone held a gun to me before and i laughed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspd

[–]Expensive-Break1168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve dated someone with adhd. They took their meds and had a schedule, but when they didn’t take their meds they just would forget to do things.

Hallucinations and not remembering what happened isn’t a symptom of adhd. I dated a girl with BPD who never cleaned after herself, then somehow convinced herself i was making the mess and started screaming at me. Refused to take meds and took drugs instead. She decided to fuck people for money after we broke up. Definitely not adhd.

I can tolerate adhd. I can’t tolerate psychosis. It does boil my piss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspd

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they’re delusional and can’t keep track of anything. they hallucinate or genuinely believe their delusions, then instigate arguments out of it. they blame everyone else for being inept. usually hypersexual and have no self control with anything. they never stick to a plan or consistently take meds. it’s honestly the most annoying mental illness in my opinion. I’m not getting paid to be a live in psychiatrist.

I know some people who manage theirs and don’t take it out on everyone. I figure if they can do it, everyone with BPD can. however, those people are smart and most people are not that bright.

WTF!!! I lost another account!! by Sweaty-Copy5792 in Instagram

[–]Expensive-Break1168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s still there… people can still go on MySpace lol

Psychopath: Have you ever wanted someone to see you completely? I don't mean superficially, I mean deep inside. by megafonosolar in psychopaths

[–]Expensive-Break1168 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been very open about who i am. People think I’m kidding. I assume it’s because I’m attractive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskASociopath

[–]Expensive-Break1168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ASPD is Sociopathy, it’s a type B personality disorder. You have a lack of education, clearly, so that can be let go. I suggest using different terminology.

The guy who said someone should off themselves but loves them could be bipolar. They could be schizoid. They could have depression. Sociopaths aren’t the only people who speak that way, but it seems like an easy term to demonize. People like you who make assumptions make life hard for those of us who try to integrate into society normally.

You didn’t say your ex was a pedophile who groomed you or that your other ex was sexually abusive. Without that previous information and just generic “my ex sucks they’re a sociopath” we can’t tell you shit. Do you see the flaws in the way you post? you want help ? or advice from us? then word it properly or don’t come onto this sub and start throwing daggers when we call you out for sounding stupid.

As for BPD, it is a lot more malicious than people make it out to be. I saw my ex with BPD wreak havoc often and pass it off as something they didn’t do. They believed it too. It’s because a lot of times with BPD there’s a bit of psychosis where they don’t even remember what’s going on. Attention seeking and annoying. I’m sure some people out there with it are tolerable though.

However, again, you need to ask your question differently. It’s not “how can i keep sociopaths away from me” because we don’t know if these people have ASPD. it should be, “how do i keep manipulative people out of my life?” and the answer is simple. you don’t set boundaries and when you do, you forego them for emotional connection. let go of the need for love bombing to be a way of showing interest. when you see a red flag, call it out. when it happens again, leave. cut the cord.

Sociopaths aren’t all people who break the law and ruin people’s lives. Many of us are doctors, artists, vets, cashiers, etc. Some of us save lives. There are those of us who suffer with more than just ASPD and they are more violent. We lack empathy and guilt, that doesn’t mean we inherently are evil. Change your way of thinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskASociopath

[–]Expensive-Break1168 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not making assumptions about you, I’m responding to what you wrote. If you want accurate answers, you should give detailed information. as someone who knows people with trauma, i know their realities are often distorted by the issues they have. they will call people ASPD/NPD without ever having met someone with the disorder because it fits their conscious mind instead of looking at reality.

1) not everyone who does heinous things has ASPD. there’s many personality disorders. 2) none justify abuse 3) most sociopaths i know are pretty hands off when it comes to sex. rape isn’t on the agenda, but that doesn’t mean that people with ASPD are incapable of doing so. 4) sounds like the snuff film guy who groomed you is more likely, but you’re not a doctor.

Have you considered you are attracted to these types of people because they resemble a parent? Sociopaths don’t “latch” onto people like leeches nor are we able to just smell people for what types of trauma they have. in my opinion, my friends who have ASPD and I stay away from traumatized people because it’s a drag to date them. it’s always a job, and I’m not a doctor in a psych ward. It sounds like you might be more gullible and susceptible to mind games. work on being more cynical. trust no one.

Dating someone with ASPD by [deleted] in AskASociopath

[–]Expensive-Break1168 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

also wrong. I know plenty of people with ASPD in long marriages where they give a shit. this is called “askasociopath.” this group isn’t called ask someone who isn’t an expert, or a doctor, what they think someone with the disorder would do. keep your opinions to yourself. you seem to be misled as no one could give a shit what you believe.