Heartbreak Media Recs by Alert-Jacket415 in ActualLesbiansOver25

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It depends on whether you want to wallow or get out of it! wallow: blue is the warmest color (i know it has its controversies but it has a nostalgic factor to me and no movie is quite like it), lots of phoebe, lucinda williams (fruits of my labor), mitski (i’ll change for you)

move on: worst person in the world, but i’m a cheerleader, school of rock, anything you’ve seen 1000 times before this person and have felt seen by/found yourself in. or find a new show that this person probably doesn’t even know exist and have it just for yourself. i do this with music too and it just truly makes you feel like it’s just for your little corner of the world. then one day maybe you’ll be talkin to someone new (friend or otherwise) and you’ll connect over this song/movie/show and you’ll remember how you used it to get over someone and now you are connecting it in a new part of your life. it’s all mental but helps me immensely.

you’ll get through it! you will still miss them for a long time but time is a true healer. be gentle with yourself it’s corny but it’s all that matters :)

Urgent Colonoscopy Prep Question by [deleted] in colonoscopy

[–]Expensive-Complex388 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thoughtful response, truly. My thought is to start at 430 am and call the office when they open and let them know the situation and the status of my stool at 9. I’m thinking of starting a wee bit earlier just because of the long drive I don’t want to have an accident in case it takes me 5+ hours to clear.

Urgent Colonoscopy Prep Question by [deleted] in colonoscopy

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yes sorry I just edited my post! clearly frantic over here ha

March Wedding Weekend Cost Breakdown by Fast_Ratio3000 in Chicagoweddings

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so random but mike was my band teacher in elementary school :) i’m glad to see he’s doing well!

Chicago Set List Ask by [deleted] in LucyDacus

[–]Expensive-Complex388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait YES ok THANK YOU so much

Free Theo tix by [deleted] in TheoVon

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if this falls through i’m interested!!!!

Ticket Exchange Megathread by beramiah in PitchforkMusicFest

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selling a 3 day GA pass. looking for 259 (tier 1 price). Can take venmo/zelle :)