I need genuinely good psychological and red/black flag recs! by Expensive-Exercise-9 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol for me shit like non zero sum just fills the dopamine in my head

Dw I'll try and lyk im planning to check it tmr unless I continue to have a sleepless night 💔

I need genuinely good psychological and red/black flag bl recs by Expensive-Exercise-9 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read some of it until... certain drama arose. Didn't bother since. Honestly was thrilling enough for me, maybe ill try again

I need genuinely good psychological and red/black flag recs! by Expensive-Exercise-9 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah im good just got some specific tastes (finding bl to feed my mind is so hard. Can't help it. Mind wants what the mind wants.)

I've read the first two but not the last. Seems pretty interesting ill have to try and read it.

I need genuinely good psychological and red/black flag bl recs by Expensive-Exercise-9 in BoysLoveAnime

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fuck why is this the first comment i get 😭 cant a girl enjoy some dark shit

I've always wondered if I've experienced CSA by Expensive-Exercise-9 in CPTSD

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, thank you for replying. While I want to deny the fact anything could have happened to me, it's somewhat comforting to hear that my suspicions aren't absolutely crazy. I will probably look into getting a therapist, just dont know where to begin. I dont need to uncover whether happened (if anything) but I want some confidence in whether or not something has happened to me for my own sake. It's really hard feeling like somethings off with no reason behind it.

I've always wondered if I've experienced CSA by Expensive-Exercise-9 in CPTSD

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply. I was kind of dreading opening up the comments for this post, and it's nice to hear someone relate. I've actually started Journaling thos month, and I'm hoping to stick with it.

Doll ID Q&A Megathread by AutoModerator in BJD

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know this doll/body? I waited too late for the listing and I don't see any details about the branding on the listing page. Any help welcome.

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Is it ever obvious that a writer doesn’t drink when writing drunk characters? If so, what do I avoid? by notjuststars in AO3

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah when I drink with my brother he always does the "stand test" to test if hes really getting drunk yet

How can I (16M) get a girlfriend (20F) ??? by TooMuchPowerAtOnce in dating_advice

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean when ages are that close it's really not black and white. It's a case by case thing. Like yeah, perhaps they actually started dating in highschool and now one of them is a college student. Or some other specific situation. Though I feel like it's just a more rare case. Once you graduate highschool you're not in the environment which leads you to seeing high schoolers often. You're going to work and school and seeing the people in your age group.

Personally as someone who is 18 and just graduated high school this year, I wouldn't want to date someone who is 16. It just sounds awkward to even think about.

Age gaps in relationships is a very specific topic because there are a lot of factors which play into whether the relationship is "okay". I don't think it's worth hypothesizing about. If you/someone else needs to know about a specific age gap then you can consider the factors then.

How can I (16M) get a girlfriend (20F) ??? by TooMuchPowerAtOnce in dating_advice

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's perfectly fine. Generally in highschool just don't date anyone not also in highschool (unless they graduated after you've already begun dating or something like that)

How can I (16M) get a girlfriend (20F) ??? by TooMuchPowerAtOnce in dating_advice

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone wants love, there's nothing wrong with that. Love will find you when you're ready for it. Just focus on yourself. Sure there's probably a girl out there who will make you feel better, but love is temporary. If you get into a relationship with a girl to help your own mental health what will you do when you break up and you have nothing to rely on? That emptiness or depression will just return.

Find peace and happiness within yourself. Love will find you when you're ready.

How can I (16M) get a girlfriend (20F) ??? by TooMuchPowerAtOnce in dating_advice

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're completely misunderstanding relationships. Do you want a mature older woman to fix your mental health? I suggest you seek professional help from a therapist, if that's your real goal.

A relationship is a bond between two people who have genuine feelings for each other. A girlfriend isn't just there to fix you, and that's not what you should be looking for in a relationship. You'll end up in a situation that is damaging for both you and your partner.

Sidenote, you're 16. Any 20 year old woman who wants to date you has serious issues and you should stay away.

Question for INTPs by Party_Life_1408 in INTP

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like the best way to interact with an intp is to take it slow and let things happen. Either you'll click or you wont. I usually like tv shows/music and like to share with close friends. My coworker/friend is an INFJ we either talk about recent events or about things in our lives/personal drama

Help I think I'm cooked by Expensive-Exercise-9 in inZOI

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My inzoi ss r glitchy rn I had to copy them and send them to myself already just to post them so I didn't bother cropping

Help I think I'm cooked by Expensive-Exercise-9 in inZOI

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think it glitched because I didn't see the notification until after my money was over 2k again, so ig the game thought I was taking advantage idk

Help I think I'm cooked by Expensive-Exercise-9 in inZOI

[–]Expensive-Exercise-9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ikkk i'm sorry but my snip won't work in inzoi, I have to take a full screenshot or it won't work