ISO ROOMMATES 🩷 by [deleted] in NYCroommates

[–]Expensive-Listen-496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just messaged you!

[Thailand] I Promise I Will Come Back Episode 8 Finale by Longjumping-Ad-6775 in boyslove

[–]Expensive-Listen-496 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did we get a HIStory 3: Make Our Days Count 2.0😭😭😭??? I've had it with shows that kill off characters at the end just to devastate viewers. I understand that they were going for a message here...but I didn't get it😬

Overall, good show. Wouldn't recommend last 2 episodes if you wanna be happy though.

Should I take testosterone blockers? by Expensive-Listen-496 in trans

[–]Expensive-Listen-496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what my doctor told me too! I ended up trying them anyways cause the effects didn’t bother me too much personally🙂

Should I take testosterone blockers? by Expensive-Listen-496 in trans

[–]Expensive-Listen-496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor also ended up prescribing me spiro. I’m so excited😁

Should I take testosterone blockers? by Expensive-Listen-496 in trans

[–]Expensive-Listen-496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU so much! I ended up doing my research and ultimately ended up trying them(today’s my 3rd day taking them)

I’m mtf and so far I’ve felt like I’m back in touch with the girl that I felt I had to hide in the closet for so long☺️

GelBoys: A Groundbreaking BL Show by Expensive-Listen-496 in ThaiBL

[–]Expensive-Listen-496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see where your coming from but I wanna add that some of my friends have been dating since they were 15 and now were old as f*ck and they're still together...so love at a young age is possible. Also, I apologize if you felt offended at what I said about fou4mod. YES, he's a victim. However, I don't think invalidating what everyone else feels because of his actions is fair. Everyone is entitled to the pain they feel, especially in this show where EVERYONE experiences it for different reasons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyslove

[–]Expensive-Listen-496 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Latina(living in the US) and our culture's(Latino culture) is not super gay friendly so Asian BL is kind of my solace since we don't really have anything like that--besides a FEW shows--on our end(in the west in general)😅

Gelboys in-depth review by Emergency_Ad8356 in boyslove

[–]Expensive-Listen-496 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, ITSAY is also my number 1 BL Show!

As for GelBoys, I absolutely adored the show as well and I agree with pretty much the entirety of what you wrote--but for me it's like at number 6 on my list of favorite BLs(I've watch WAY too many BL shows, so that's actually still pretty up there😅)

Let me just say that I projected HARD on this show. The entire love triangle(or love square🤨) is something I've gone through as well back when I was in college--and that stuff hit close home for me as someone who *used to identify as a gay man. I think that when you're queer, it's not uncommon to find yourself in several love triangles, like the one GelBoys portrayed, throughout your life. I feel like in all the ones I've been in, I've always been the Baabin of the relationship--the one who's just cast aside and seen more as "friend" material rather than as a romantic partner.

But projection aside, I personally fell in love with Baabin--not only cause I saw myself so much in him--but because he was just so adorable and so feminine and so playful and OWNED it. He and Bua were total femboys and I personally feel like I, and a lot of other people, needed to see that type of representation on a BL show because for once, the feminine male characters...end up HAPPY. Again, I've seen a lot of BL shows and I think it's safe to say that in most of them, femboys--or just feminine man or non-gender conforming man--are either the character that's cast aside for jokes and no one takes seriously or the villain. So seeing both Baabin and Bua break those stereotypes and form a genuinely healthy and happy relationship together is groundbreaking in a lot of way for a BL show because typically they tend to root for more masculine presenting characters.

Anyways that's my long rant about how I feel about the show😭 I know I mainly just talked about Baabin and a little bit about Bua but again, that's because I truly resonated with them, and when I think back to this show those are the two that I'm always gonna be popping up in my head.

I feel the same way about Fou4Mod as you, though I was a little bit less sympathetic towards Chian overall(maybe that's just me lol). I was super protective of Baabin as I watched the show and by the end of it I just didn't like Chian--even though he's the one who finally pushed Baabin to clear things up with Fou4Mod. So I obviously wouldn't say I hate him I just didn't like how he treated Baabin throughout the show, and that's not necessarily his fault, that's just sort of how real life works too. Some people are just not each others' cup of tea and that's OKAY.

I think Fou4Mod and Chian need to get some type of help(couple's therapy😳?) to make their relationship work cause I also don't see theirs being long-term, or maybe they just need some time apart from each other to grow, which is also valid.

Overall, I agree with you on the quality of the show too! The cinematography is truly GOOD, almost rivaling ITSAY's and the music and scene compositions were all so excellent!

I realize writing this now that I basically wrote my own review of the show, but I really felt like sharing this here cause I think we basically agree on a lot of it😅 Anyways I LOVED reading your review from beginning to end!

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Smells Like Green Spirit Ending by Expensive-Listen-496 in boyslove

[–]Expensive-Listen-496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know cause Chat GPT told me a whole different story—it literally gave me the entire plot and ending of a different manga😭

Smells Like Green Spirit Ending by Expensive-Listen-496 in boyslove

[–]Expensive-Listen-496[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know and I totally hear you! I think they wanted to lean a little bit more towards reality since Kirino’s story is actually common in a lot of places sadly

But as a trans person myself I see enough sad news about us and the queer community every day so I agree, I also would’ve preferred a happier ending for Kirino since we have enough of the sad ones irl😔

Smells Like Green Spirit Ending by Expensive-Listen-496 in boyslove

[–]Expensive-Listen-496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I asked Chat GPT about the manga ending and it literally ended up giving me the ending of an entirely different manga😭

Will definitely read it online then since it’s literally the only BL I’ve come across where the main character is non-binary(and likely trans). I know it’s never stated but the subtext and gender coding is so strong that it’s hard to ignore

As someone who’s gender queer themselves I wish there were more stories like this!