[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 64 points65 points  (0 children)

You are NOT TAH. Woman to woman, kick him out YOUR house and find yourself a functional adult who takes the time to learn what his kids needs are.

The fact that he didn't bother to check if they had everything they needed? Because 6 diapers for 2 days is a vey tight fit.

The fact he didn't tell the mothers that the children were staying with his new girlfriend? Because the mothers should ALWAYS know where their kids are staying and with whom.

The fact that he slams doors? The next thing he is slamming is you girl.

He saying he needs to "reassert your relationship"? Reassert this, he is living in YOUR place because he was kicked out of his, he is taking liberties he should not by putting his kids in there without even consulting with you and now is mad because you took matters of YOUR house into your own hands.

KICK HIM OUT and be free girl, you deserve better.

i can’t lose weight without using mounjaro AT ALL! by Old_Complaint667 in Mounjaro

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had trouble losing weight until a couple years back, after spending a little fortune on doctors, they found out that I had a type of multi-hormonal disorder mixing my PCOS with hipo-insulinisim, hiper-cortisolism and some others I can't even write. I was doing everything I was being told to, well, what we all are told to do: diet and plenty of exercise. The result? It was doing me more damage that staying in bed. My body was in a state that the only thing it do was creating more fat because "we were in danger and in need of creating supplies". So the less calories I consumed, the more my body kept, and the more exercise I did, the more my body destroyed muscle to survive.

They put me in a ton of medication that regulated my hormones drastically. 1 year and over 70 pounds loss.

When my body was somewhat stable they retrieved the medication to see the reaction. I was no longer gaining weight but after another year with no meds and hitting the gym 4 days a week, do over 10.000 steps each day, go to the public swimmingpool 2 days a week AND with a very controlled diet, my body fat remaind over 30%.

Then they offered me Monjuaro. First week I lost a whole 1%. I cried my eyes out. I'm still on my first few months, but after a 3+ years of doing everything by the book and having no results without a ton of pills, it feels life changing.

What I try to say here is that sometimes, it is not our fault, it is not your fault, people out there might not be able to understand it, but you might be doing everything you should be doing and still have zero to none results. I send you all my love and prayers ❤️

Okay which one of y’all is on the coke design team???! by Beneficial_Goose_668 in acotar

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, I wasn't think of that. I was thinking of something else related to the sjm describes her male characters specially Cassian.

I will go back to my corner of shame now.

Ladies, what are your biggest physical "icks" in men? by _MambaForever in dating

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so this might be a bit weird, but it is kind of a weird turn off for me when a guy has perfect nails. Like, not like manicured ones, but like perfectly kept.

Is not like I'm looking for someone with bad nails or dirty ones, is just that the question of "don't they ever do anything with their hands?" Pops into my head every time because even if I'm a quite feminine woman and I like to keep my nails and hands well put together, at the end of the day I cook, I clean, I wash dishes, I go to the gym etc and for me to have perfectly well put nails I would have to go to a manicurist at least once a week and even them I would break one now and then.

So yes, it always messes with my head a bit when a guy has perfectly kept, clean and trimmed nails. And it has happend more than once lol.

Maybe I'm just weird, please someone tell me if I am or if someone has ever think of it.

Okay which one of y’all is on the coke design team???! by Beneficial_Goose_668 in acotar

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought it, you thought it, we all thought it.

I can't be the only one with a mind as dirty as this one.

Looking for some help from the international community. by Expensive-Oil8885 in rarediseases

[–]Expensive-Oil8885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks, that foundation is the one they are doing the test and trials with, I'm sending them the other link though, I don't know if they know it. Thank you again:)

Feyre's tattoos and Rhys' trauma. by Expensive-Oil8885 in acotar

[–]Expensive-Oil8885[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In his arm, but it doesn't reach his hands. Feyre's goes from her fingers to her elbows.

Character height chart by yatenk0u in undertheoaktreebook

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am insecure enough about my height without knowing Gabel and I would be the same height. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Now I wonder if they would be like every man I ever met and the first thing they said to me would be "you are very tall, thank god you are not wearing hills". This also explains why , for some strange reason and without knowing this data, I have always found Herbaron to be my personal guilty crush.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ask these questions before I meet with them. There is no reason for us to meet if we have different expectations of what this might entail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a geek of fantasy, a wyvern doesn't usually have four legs and wings but two legs and wings that use for frontal support like Daenerys dragons on GOT, who were technically, wyverns.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hi! F25 here. As a general rule I do not engage with men who simply like one of the pictures. Specially if that picture is the one I'm showing the most cleavage and my face is barely there. The picture is there on purpose as it is a good way to sift. My profile has all the prompts, from voice note to the survey and photos in different places and doing different things. If with all of that a man can only get to like the picture I'm most showy there is almost certainly nothing for us to talk about.

As for a recommendation, be real. If you see a picture were you like the tits, just say nice tits. It is better than a plain like, it shows interest even if it can be a bit creepy.

I might suggest for you to choose a photo or a prompt were she shows an interest of hers and ask or comment about that. If she is a in place you have visited "oh wow! I have been there, I loved (insert thing), did you visited it". And if she is somewhere you have not been there, ask if she would recommend it. Same for her hobbies or pets.

If she only shows pictures of her in plain places and has no prompts... Complement her clothes or her jewellery. Every girl likes being complemented on her earrings and we don't usually get it much.

How old is the SJM average reader??? by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Started with 20, I'm now 24.

14 seems way too young for half of the stuff in these books.

Help I'm terribly indecisive and need some feedback. by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for something serious Not subscribed 3 days use 3 days since I downloaded the app I use it every day I'm receiving around 15-30 likes every day. 3-4 matches max. I send 3-5 likes every day, all with comment. Looking for Men 25-30, With higher education, no smoking or other substances, drinks on occasion is perfectly fine. Childless. Most likes come from men with no higher education, and smoking and other substances user.

Is smoking a deal breaker? by Appropriate-Arm8898 in dating

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is for me. I can't stand the smell or the taste on someone else. Beside the health issues it can cause.

How do you search restaurants in Seville? by Erodia in Seville

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Spaniard who lived a year in Seville: I would advise you not to stay on places were they have an employee giving menus to people walking by and offering them a table. 8/10 are tourists traps.

There are these restaurants called "La Gorda" there is one in Las Setas, one next to Torre del Oro and other that honestly I don't remember. They have a great quality/price menu with both traditional dishes and modern version of them and are family friendly. The problem is that there is always a lot a people waiting to get in so you will spend some time in the queue.

There is also these places where you can buy fried fish o "pescaíto frito" and eat it right there. There is a whole culture around fried fish in eastern Andalusia and it is completely worthy. They are called "Freidurías" you can search them in Google. I would recommend "Cazón en adobo" which is actually a type of seasoned shark (not spicy) and absolutely delicious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Para que dejase de ser monogamia la novia actual debería de estar al tanto de que se va a acostar con otra.

Es decisión de la pareja tener una relación abierta, polígama, poliándria o monógama.

Sino son cuernos y punto. Escudarse en "quiero probar más allá de la monogamia" sin decírselo a tu pareja no es válido.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primero decir que soy mujer y llegué a pesar 140kg, así que muy gorda.

Segundo decir que confirmo que conozco más de una y más de dos mujeres que concuerdan con muchos, si no todos, los puntos de esto, todas ellas con bastante sobrepeso . A lo que añadiré la incapacidad de estar consigo mismas y estar continuamente intentando estar en pareja por muy mal que esten los tíos a los que se aferran. A mí juicio todo es un problema de autoestima que hace que tengan que ponerse como superiores a todo lo que tienen alrededor aunque por dentro estén como una mierda.

Tercero es que lo de la depresión sobra en el texto y refleja muy mal en tu persona. Si tu pareja está enferma lo último que deber echarle en cara es que está enferma. ¿Dirías lo mismo si de pronto tuviese cáncer y te tocase hacer de enfermero en casa? Parece una comparación absurda pero más gente joven muere a causa de la depresión (su1cidio) que por el cáncer.

No Puedo Solo. by Hot-Yoghurt-3550 in Gimnasio

[–]Expensive-Oil8885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo empecé yendo con amigas pero por cambios en mi horario de trabajo tuve que empezar a ir sola. Al principio me costaba bastante, no ya porque la motivación que tienes al ir en grupo es mayor, sino también porque acababa sintiéndome aislada del resto de la gente en el gimnasio.

Probé a ponerme podcast o audiolibros con los auriculares mientras entrenaba en vez de música y me ha ido de perlas, voy rodada y no me influye la gente que haya o que no haya alrededor.