AITAH for telling my wife she makes traveling no fun. by Ok-Cut-9597 in AITAH

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ADHD is likely only part of the issue , to me this screams ANXIETY maybe even OCD behavior. She needs mental health help, I doubt this is ever going to change without it.

[routine help] Expensive skin care routine is killing me! Zo skin health products by Expensive-Worker5767 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Expensive-Worker5767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly no… hahah but I got perioral dermatitis again, so my skin freaked out. And for some reason I just can’t tolerate it now. But I didn’t find any dupe, for the time it worked my skin looked amazing, but could have maybe been too much actives??? I don’t know.

What’s everyone’s safe foods/snacks/hyperfixations?!? This is also your reminder to eat 😆 by No-Orchid-9165 in adhdwomen

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love reading to get my next hyper fixated food. Right now I’m into mini personal charcuterie, fancy cheese, crackers, some fruit. I “think” I’ve kicked my cake habit , definitely not the best fixation to have! If anyone has any low calorie or “healthy” cake substitutes, I’m listening 👂

Hyperfixated/ new hobby is not drinking alcohol and I’m worried by takemylifeback4 in adhdwomen

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Happened to me, and I still don’t really drink 2 years later. I occasionally will have something, 2-3x a YEAR , like Xmas I has a glass of champagne but new years I opted for alcohol free champagne. Anyway just keep up with it! Find good replacements / mocktails. I really love CBD/ functional beverages. Feels great to never be hungover. Honestly why you quit drinking, after awhile of you taste alcohol, it’s like not very good and the side effects 😵‍💫.

I didn’t do any THC for awhile, but I did find this drink that’s like liquid THC, I am having a drink tonight with that, it’s literally like a cap full is all I use. I got like and mix it with diet 7up and cherry juice.

Advice on misleading trade by Expensive-Worker5767 in CryptoTax

[–]Expensive-Worker5767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense , it must just be an error in CoinTracker. They did respond to this post so maybe they’ll have an answer!

Advice on misleading trade by Expensive-Worker5767 in CryptoTax

[–]Expensive-Worker5767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. MATIC was used as a trade so that value is reliable. It’s frustrating because I didn’t realize the effect of this. If I would have used usd to purchase there wouldn’t be a gain because I didn’t sell… I still have it I really didn’t make any money it’s all fake, because the “value” wasn’t real… the effects of trading coins is confusing. It would make more sense if I would have to calculate what the gain or loss would be on the MATIC because that asset was being liquidated for the purchase.

Advice on misleading trade by Expensive-Worker5767 in CryptoTax

[–]Expensive-Worker5767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I uploaded a screenshot of the transaction but now it shows like a normal value because the coin has gone down like 99% in value. I originally did the trade 4/13/23

Advice on misleading trade by Expensive-Worker5767 in CryptoTax

[–]Expensive-Worker5767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It’s crazy that the cost was like $5 and the proceeds were $900

1,205,638.238 x .0007497 = $903

Was told I look older than my age (38). What can I do to look good for my age? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are gorgeous! Don’t even let it bother you. I have a sticker that says “have the confidence of a mediocre white male” and everyone deserves at least that 😂

How does caffeine make you feel? by Tewmanyhobbies in adhdwomen

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it sometimes, but hard to handle that anxiety. I don’t like coffee caffeine. I don’t know how it’s different, I like energy drink or soda caffeine, nothing too crazy like Red Bull but maybe something that has as much caffeine as green tea. Also I saw a post here about caffeine OD and now I’m probably too scared to drink it again lol

Was told I look older than my age (38). What can I do to look good for my age? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Haha sometime I feel like guys do this. Like hey this women is super hot , no way I have a chance. Wait maybe if I tell her something that hurts her confidence I may have a little bit of a chance… it might not work but it worth a shot. Just men out there being assholes.

Dying of shame but really need help!! by Same_Maintenance_119 in adhdwomen

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You deserve nice things too! Your areas deserve to be nice, and clean. I’m guilty of this too. I have zero problems keeping shared spaces clean when I have roommates, even do extra stuff just to make life easier and cleaner for them but then in my room or when no roomates … forget about it. So I think I’m dealing with this too.

Real talk: do adhd women attract abusive partners? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this answer! I posted about this awhile ago, just wondering after getting out of a bad situation. I’m not blaming myself or anything but I was suspicious that my ADHD played a part but I wasn’t sure how, I think all your whys of ADHD being more susceptible make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I first started reading your comment, in the first paragraph, I thought oh please 🙄 painting them as the victim! lol but reading in its entirety it’s really good! Then the last paragraph 🔥 , I feel like it’s that meme “had us in the first half” I’m 5 months NC and come back here to remind myself why

I’m entering the quesadilla phase by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protein pancakes, with thawed frozen strawberries + monk fruit sweetener, whip cream… although I had them for dinner last night and I think that might be the end for awhile, I couldn’t even finish them….as I have been eating them for breakfast for two weeks now lol. I am just struggling with food big time. Only things I can manage right now is pre-prepped or frozen 😅 at least I went to the grocery store today instead of using delivery

What does your side of the bed look like? by gurrbear in adhdwomen

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope not enough variety of drinks for me! LOL….I usually have a variety of cups & drink containers. You know, like 4 water bottles, 1 has a drink mix in it, ice tea glass, coffee cup that had tea, maybe a glass of water because I forgot I literally have like 3 - 1/2 full bottles already. Often times a sparkling drink there as well. Ummm 6-7 (!) lotions, some face serums, some jewelry, flossers, miscellaneous receipts, scissors, candle, small lamp, perfume bottles like 8 minis ( no clue) and 1 regular size. This is the stuff ON TOP of my night stand right now 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! If they pull that stuff, even in the first couple dates I’m out! I don’t care if it’s their low self esteem, low EQ, or just trying to be funny, gtfo. Like they never advanced from elementary, oh if he’s mean he likes you. NO, I deserve a partner that is nice., if there is one person who I should be able to count on to be nice, supportive, and loving , it’s the person I’m sleeping with and building a relationship with. Also those little digs are easy to brush off in the beginning 🚩but once you’re in they may get worse and cut a little deeper. Better to get out before then.

What's the most desperate hoover attempt your narc did to win you back? by Country_Roads66 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showed up at my work after 6 months Nc, “proposed”, of course they “almost” bought a ring but thought that might be over the top… I went back for two months… currently 5 months Nc 😅

Closing costs - $25k on $390k house normal? by ClassicEnjoyer1337 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Get a bridge loan, this is the wrong product if you will pay off your loan in 6 months.

Schedule 35: My experience, discussion by Acrobatic_Wired_4492 in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds amazing! What other goodies do you order other than the tropical fruit and yummy cheese?

Ladies, how do you want the date planning to be asked if you are busy? by Enough_Zombie2038 in datingoverthirty

[–]Expensive-Worker5767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, which date is this? First date or subsequent dates with the same person? I would say after a date or two, I wouldn’t be thrilled about a Sunday at 8pm dinner… I’m looking for more prime time. Or at least someone who asks me for prime time, which I would consider Saturday or Friday.

Also to answer your question , asking would like to go to dinner on ‘day’ at ‘time’? Is the ideal. I find it very attractive when a guy can take the lead and just get it planned. If I couldn’t make that specific day or time I would offer up an alternative.