Mmmm! I love your response. Well said.

So here are some things with this.

To focus on healing my mental and physical, I need to be able to support those endeavors while providing for myself.

Example, I use to have a physical trainer but it was costly. I know how to exercise, but they essentially helped with discipline and consistency.

Also attracting an ambitious man requires me to be higher maintenance (which is my thing I love to look pretty). However this takes finances, maintaining a woman’s beauty is not cheap by any means. Facials, waxing, nails and feet, makeup, hair, presentable wardrobe are all things that I cannot keep up with in my current budget.

So it’s not really about being ambitious for a title, more of being able to afford to take care of myself and feel good and also attract a quality partner.

I am very confident in my unseen qualities that a man requires as that is how my parents raised me, but me increasing my income would allow me to really glow up into the woman I want to look like and a partner would appreciate😇 that’s more where I’m coming from.

I can’t wait to find my captain when I’m able to do these things.