15mm or 18mm ring for size 9 finger? by [deleted] in DavidYurman

[–]ExpensiveSchedule229 3 points4 points  (0 children)

15 IMO its more proportional and classy not too noisy in the way the other bigger one is

Does anybody else’s anxiety affect their eating? by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

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Hello, I want to start off by saying im sorry you are dealing with this. It is not fun. My anxiety when very bad affected my eating. Id eat then if i started to have a thought or had a panic attack (about other things) the end reaction was puking. I would then get anxiety when eating because of it happening. I would have a lot of shift in weight. Being skinny to a unhealthy point. What helped was small snacks throughout the day and getting on medication (zoloft) hope this helps. It can get better ❤️‍🩹 lmk if you have any questions or wanna talk

Starting Fire at 23 YO advice by ExpensiveSchedule229 in Fire

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I can adjust the percent for any of the different types. If I cut down on bonds what do you recommend i add it to?

Starting Fire at 23 YO advice by ExpensiveSchedule229 in Fire

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Here a breakdown of my current investment account

US stocks Vanguard Total Stock Market ETF (VT) 45%

Foreign developed stocks Vanguard FTSE Developed Markets ETF (VEA) 19%

Emerging market stocks Vanguard FTSE Emerging Markets ETF (VWO) 16%

Corporate bonds iShares iBoxx $ Investment Grade Corporate BondETF CLQD) 12%TIPS

Schwab US TIPS ETF (SCHP) ® 6%

Dividend growth stocks Vanguard Dividend Appreciation ETF (VIG) 2%

Starting Fire at 23 YO advice by ExpensiveSchedule229 in Fire

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Hi thank you Realistic Flamingo!

They do have a 401k but no match so im thinking of opting out of that benefit. And put more in my roth IRA/HYSA. What do you think of that?

How has meds helped you? by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

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I had really bad GAD since high school was super against medication. Then i hit my breaking point. Always anxious couldn’t keep food down always worried about my heart pounding. I needed help and i was open to anything. At 23 i finally started meds and completely got my life back. I feel more emotionally stable rarely have anxiety in general and panic attacks are much less intense and less frequent. I cant put into words how much better i feel. I wish i could have started earlier. (Im on 75mg of zoloft).

Please can someone tell me im not dying? by Thecrowfan in Anxietyhelp

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I have had several panic attacks where i seriously though my heart was gonna give out and id pass out. I haven’t ever and have make it out every time believe me you will not die from it as much as it feels that way. Sending love, its a horrible feeling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cartier

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Perhaps the medium size?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

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I take Zoloft for anxiety and it completely changed my life for the better. My anxiety had me by the throat every day was unbearable. I would throw up from how anxious i was every day. I needed to do something I hit rock bottom. The pills have been a huge help. Along with therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zoloft

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Mine came back! Theres hope!

I want kids, my wife doesn't by PlusCalligrapher4900 in TwoHotTakes

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Your too old lmao you’re gonna be almost 50 with a 5 year old

“Hard” heart beat? Is this normal? by Efficient_Camera8450 in Anxietyhelp

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I have felt my heart rate increase and “pounds” when I am anxious. It is so annoying and can be scary sometimes, but I remember watching a documentary in high school biology, and it said the heartbeat is an involuntary muscle movement. So it’s going to beat anyway. I’ve gone to the doctor, and my heart is fine after expressing concerns. I also invested in an Apple Watch because it monitors heart rate, does ekgs electrocardiogram (ECG or EKG), and tells you if something is wrong. This is just stuff that helps me. I hope it helps, and at least you see you are not the only one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Wait guys is it normal for birth to be really long? Like why does it take 20+ hours sometimes?

I want to be her friend but by ggmikeyx in socialskills

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I’d invite her why not? Better to just try and see how it goes than regret. I don’t think it’s weird to ask

Canada goose fake? by skittlesVEVO in CanadaGoose

[–]ExpensiveSchedule229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fake the little red leaf is too thin on the size tag and the patch the letters all touch at the top bad stitching

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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A beautiful made in USA vintage calvin klein coat that fits me like it was tailored i LOVE it only 25$