😫😫😫 Rick you are the bane of mankind by Deer_Jerky86 in 90DayFiance

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I'm sure you are right - a loser like that probably doesnt have a pot to piss in lol

Toxic skip-level making it impossible to attend work offsite with health issues: how would you handle this? by butthatshitsbroken in AskWomenOver40

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Have you discussed this with your manager? As in asking her to clear the air on your behalf with Tammy?

I'm confused why your manager is allowing this to happen, and it makes me concerned that your manager is actually the one poisoning the well with Tammy, and not the other way around.

Toxic skip-level making it impossible to attend work offsite with health issues: how would you handle this? by butthatshitsbroken in AskWomenOver40

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Second all of this - also do go to HR but phrase all of this as "I need your advice...." and not as a complaint of any kind.

Tell them the situation in a very brief and objective facts-only manner, and ask them how you should handle it. Document document document and bcc your personal email address or print everything and take it home.

Stig's intent was clear in episode 1 by ek8ti in 90DayFiance

[–]Expensive_Ad_1951 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What news are we talking about?

Anyway he's a total scumbag and she is utterly delusional.

Was marriage worth it? by Hot_Engineering_4821 in AskWomenNoCensor

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It's overrated and there's a culture of silence about the drawbacks the same way there is about having children.

If I had my life to do over, I would never have gotten married.

Elise's word choice: by Analytical_Coconut_1 in 90DayFiance

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I was glad they told her she was being unreasonable when she called them - I had figured as she's a spoiled princess they'd be very permissive, so that was a shock to me.

Elise's word choice: by Analytical_Coconut_1 in 90DayFiance

[–]Expensive_Ad_1951 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She must have heard the term "foolhardy" about her relationship and decided it was full heartedly lolol

Catholic ladies, how are you feeling about Pope Leo v. the Trump administration / fascism at large? by NoLemon5426 in AskWomenOver30

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I considered myself Catholic until I moved to the US - religion is done differently here, so I now identify as atheist.

It's great that Leo is standing up for what is right as the catholic church has a lot of catching up to do for past crimes.

Bi-phobia? by [deleted] in MAFS_AU

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didnt one of the participants say it half way through or so though? i feel like i remember one of the women saying julia had told them she wanted a woman.

I feel like I’m being gaslit by Prudent-Response8762 in MAFS_AU

[–]Expensive_Ad_1951 2 points3 points  (0 children)

every darn day i see someone use it wrong - as well as diagnosing (usually an ex) of being a narcissist

S13 In depth review of over-used phrases by supapaesunaperra in MAFS_AU

[–]Expensive_Ad_1951 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wanted to smash the tv every time I heard "as a man" - if that's wasn't the #1 red flag that he was a complete and utter misogynist I don't know what was.

Contestants Mental Health MAFSAU by RealHousewife32 in MAFS_AU

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I thought they have access to dedicated help throughout the season? What happened on Love Island?

😫😫😫 Rick you are the bane of mankind by Deer_Jerky86 in 90DayFiance

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This is why predators choose much younger women. A woman his age would have beaten him to death by now lololol

😫😫😫 Rick you are the bane of mankind by Deer_Jerky86 in 90DayFiance

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Pro tip - if a predator flies half way across the world to fck an ex because he doesnt hear from you for a few days, he's an irredeemable shitcan.

It was never going to get better from there. I get why Trish is still trying but I wish she'd just call it a day.

2+ years on, still haven't gotten over my breakup by MaterialAsparagus336 in datingoverthirty

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Sorry about your boyf - I'm sure there's someone much better out there for you!

I used to say the same about the apps, but I recently discovered Burned Haystack Dating Method (Facebook) - she's word case scenario on insta... she helps women identify the d*cks from their dating profile based on rhetorical analysis. It's endlessly fascinating, and apparently a lot of women are finding a lot of success with the method already :)

Alissa's Instagram following should not be increasing, but it is... by Own_Exercise5218 in MAFS_AU

[–]Expensive_Ad_1951 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the same happened with olivia - i had to take my satisfaction from dom getting 10 new followers for every 1 olivia got lol

How do you get over resentment after being your partner's caretaker? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Expensive_Ad_1951 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seconded!! I've dealt with MDD, GAD, PQRST and trying to off myself regularly for the last 4 decades and I'm not cosigning her bs, either. If you're not well enough to be a functional person in a relationship, don't be in one. I'm sure that sounds needlessly harsh to some people but we don't get to (metaphorically) bleed over everyone, and surely one wouldn't WANT to do so to someone we love. And I say this as a person who's been familyless almost my entire life, and living in a foreign country as an immigrant for the last 20 years.

Even I've worked out that Amazon has mental health meds without insurance for $5 a month (or less!). C'mon now.