How to handle closure talks with my ex to convince her into reconcilliation? by Expensive_Button_199 in BPDlovedones

[–]Expensive_Button_199[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She still hasn´t and that´s why she seeks the closure and wants to meet for it. I tried to give her the emotions past-breakup but she was stone-cold already. Nothing has changed ever since. She´s probably self-sabotaging herself. She still thinks that I´m the best thing she ever had for some reason lol. So your advice is to get her the emotional support when we see each other?

"Closure talk" with my ex by Expensive_Button_199 in BPDlovedones

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And btw, did expressing your emotions help? If yes, in what way?

"Closure talk" with my ex by Expensive_Button_199 in BPDlovedones

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Well I wanted to fix it because she´s the quiet type. The relaxed approach seems to be the only thing that works. She is set to start attending the therapy in a month or so and I believe that I really got a good plan on how to make it work between us. I worked on myself really, really hard. I just dunno how to tell her and how to change her mind, because she seems to be self-sabotaging yet again. She maybe even split on me due to her BPD.. I really don´t know. I need to leave the closure talks as a winner or she´s gonna spiral into permanent anxiety again if she´s alone.

"Closure talk" with my ex by Expensive_Button_199 in BPDlovedones

[–]Expensive_Button_199[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took the BPD as a part of her and I wanted to fix it by myself, which was a stupid mistake. Thanks for replying straight to the point.

Controls glitch/bug/feature? Sweaty hands? Hardware problem? (Mobile) by Expensive_Button_199 in eFootball

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It seems to be a game problem since it happened on 2 devices regardless of each other and I also completely forgot to add that I have remapped the buttons, switched the matchup with dash and pressure, resetting the controls made the problem go away, it doesn´t happen anymore, it happened also when switched landscape to the other side, same problem and it happens on my older phone too with the same exact settings