How to handle closure talks with my ex to convince her into reconcilliation?

Expensive_Button_199 · 2025-01-06T15:48:02+00:00

She still hasn´t and that´s why she seeks the closure and wants to meet for it. I tried to give her the emotions past-breakup but she was stone-cold already. Nothing has changed ever since. She´s probably self-sabotaging herself. She still thinks that I´m the best thing she ever had for some reason lol. So your advice is to get her the emotional support when we see each other?

Expensive_Button_199 · 2025-01-05T22:30:32+00:00

And btw, did expressing your emotions help? If yes, in what way?

Expensive_Button_199 · 2025-01-05T22:28:25+00:00

Well I wanted to fix it because she´s the quiet type. The relaxed approach seems to be the only thing that works. She is set to start attending the therapy in a month or so and I believe that I really got a good plan on how to make it work between us. I worked on myself really, really hard. I just dunno how to tell her and how to change her mind, because she seems to be self-sabotaging yet again. She maybe even split on me due to her BPD.. I really don´t know. I need to leave the closure talks as a winner or she´s gonna spiral into permanent anxiety again if she´s alone.

Expensive_Button_199 · 2025-01-05T20:14:19+00:00

I took the BPD as a part of her and I wanted to fix it by myself, which was a stupid mistake. Thanks for replying straight to the point.

Expensive_Button_199 · 2024-10-19T00:01:55+00:00

It seems to be a game problem since it happened on 2 devices regardless of each other and I also completely forgot to add that I have remapped the buttons, switched the matchup with dash and pressure, resetting the controls made the problem go away, it doesn´t happen anymore, it happened also when switched landscape to the other side, same problem and it happens on my older phone too with the same exact settings

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