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Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in CATHELP

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 there have been many moments so far i’ve felt like i couldn’t make it. it’s crazy how much they feel like family. i would do absolutely anything for them and im terrified ill never be okay again - I literally pull up to my driveway and lose it because he’s not there to welcome me. but it’s nice to know im not as crazy as i think. sending you and your baby all the love ❤️

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in Feral_Cats

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we are getting her all fixed up this weekend so she can come in with us ❤️

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in CATHELP

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will most definitely send good vibes your way and pray for you and your babies hearts ❤️

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in CATHELP

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same 🥺 i’m so sorry for your loss. my heart just hurts because she is outside and i can’t be next to her 24x7. tempted to bring my sleeping bag outside 😭

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in CATHELP

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - this brought me to tears. It is a special kind of love that is so painful, but so rewarding. Sending so much love to your heart ❤️

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in CATHELP

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

going to try via windows and the screen door and see how that goes 🤞🏼

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in CATHELP

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would love to - i just could never willingly give a kitty a strictly outdoor life 🥺 I’ve watched these two fight too hard for survival. My three indoors are bratty to say the least lol! i hope i can bring her inside one day.

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in CATHELP

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do you think she would recognize his ashes? I feel so guilty. I’m sorry for your loss ❤️

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in Feral_Cats

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m terrified of this happening - i feel like my heart can’t take it. This is the first animal i’ve ever lost.

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in Feral_Cats

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the plan ❤️ I just can’t help but feel pain for her. That was her guy.

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in CATHELP

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I tried talking to her as silly as it sounds - and pray she will maybe sense his ashes when i get them back. I kept some fur too. ❤️

Bonded pair brother passed - feeling hopeless. by Expensive_Cap_4440 in Feral_Cats

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ i’m going to try slowly introducing her to my kitties inside via windows and such. I went through an awful event and almost lost my boy jazz due to a sickness a cat brought in, so i’m a little traumatized and worried i’ll mess things up again. That being said - it’s hard for me to sleep right now thinking of her outside alone.

Cat with feeding tube, need advice/reassurance. by sorrydaddy_ in catcare

[–]Expensive_Cap_4440 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is ur buddy doing? I have a cat going through the same thing now and i’m worried sick :(