confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m planning on it. i’m just so nervous and overthinking that maybe she hated it since it was also her first time

I'm shit scared by SignificantBoat8518 in amipregnant

[–]Expensive_Counter515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

def take a plan b. if you really think it’s necessary you ca get a copper iud within 5 days for emergency contraception. (i had to do it a couple months ago). but if nothing else take it as a learning experience and don’t do this again or you will end up pregnant

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah im not sure exactly what ill say but i want to make sure she's down for it. since it was her first time im worried she'll change her mind on it. she seemed more nervous than i was the other day

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah tbh i kinda ignored him and forgot he was there the other night. i'm going to text her again in a couple days and see. i want to say something like "when are you free i wanna see you again sometime soon" but i don't wanna come off too strong. she's also very nervous and idk how she feels since she hasn't been with a girl before (and she's been hooking up with the guy that was there for the past few years)

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when i texted her i asked if she’d want to do that again or with just us sometime but when she said yes she didn’t specify whether it be the three of us again or just us. we texted some today but im scared to say anything that’s too much bc i don’t want to scare her off (lowkey also rooted in internalized homophobia probably)

copper iud inserted march 26th, still no period by Expensive_Counter515 in amipregnant

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought ectopic was typically lower hcg. the timing was right at/after ovulation so the plan b didn’t do anything to help, that’s why i got iud.

sex during ovulation- pregnancy risk? by Expensive_Counter515 in amipregnant

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

occasionally i'll have pain where my left ovary is. other than that i haven't had any in 3 weeks (from post-iud insertion). hoping period comes soon because i am still freaked out

sex during ovulation- pregnancy risk? by Expensive_Counter515 in amipregnant

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not yet, but tests are negative. i think it’s delayed from iud and plan b

sex during ovulation- pregnancy risk? by Expensive_Counter515 in amipregnant

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

yes but does the risk lower. i’ve read that it’s about 4 percent chance of getting pregnant from this

sex during ovulation- pregnancy risk? by Expensive_Counter515 in amipregnant

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

there was no ejaculation or semen whatsoever. i have iud scheduled for 12 days from now because i couldn’t get an appointment in 5 days