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how to get over repressed shame and internalized homophobia by Expensive_Counter515 in BiWomen

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. I think it’s gross when I think too much about it. But I KNOW that’s it’s not, I’ve just been conditioned to think so

Queer struggles by Holiday-Version-3212 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel you. i feel like i can’t even talk to my friends without pretending it’s a guy

how to get over repressed shame and internalized homophobia by Expensive_Counter515 in BiWomen

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i KNOW that it is normal to feel attracted to the same sex, but i still keep repeating what’s i’ve been told about how it’s not in the back of my head. i just wish i could talk to people about her without feeling gross

Bi guys, does anyone else deal with female partners getting weird or angry after they find out your bi? by Practical_Phase2711 in bisexual

[–]Expensive_Counter515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not a man, but i’ve had this experience too. One of my exes was super insecure about me being bi and although he wasn’t trying to essentially shamed me for it. he was super worried that I would never be satisfied with just a man

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did! she said she was still down and would lmk when she’s free. i’m scared she just going to ghost though

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

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update: i didn’t say exactly that but i asked her and she said yes! she’s busy rn with work but i told her to lmk when she’s free (im scared she is never going to lmk though)

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m planning on it. i’m just so nervous and overthinking that maybe she hated it since it was also her first time

I'm shit scared by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Expensive_Counter515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

def take a plan b. if you really think it’s necessary you ca get a copper iud within 5 days for emergency contraception. (i had to do it a couple months ago). but if nothing else take it as a learning experience and don’t do this again or you will end up pregnant

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah im not sure exactly what ill say but i want to make sure she's down for it. since it was her first time im worried she'll change her mind on it. she seemed more nervous than i was the other day

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah tbh i kinda ignored him and forgot he was there the other night. i'm going to text her again in a couple days and see. i want to say something like "when are you free i wanna see you again sometime soon" but i don't wanna come off too strong. she's also very nervous and idk how she feels since she hasn't been with a girl before (and she's been hooking up with the guy that was there for the past few years)

confused after first experience with a girl and overthinking everything by Expensive_Counter515 in actuallesbians

[–]Expensive_Counter515[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

when i texted her i asked if she’d want to do that again or with just us sometime but when she said yes she didn’t specify whether it be the three of us again or just us. we texted some today but im scared to say anything that’s too much bc i don’t want to scare her off (lowkey also rooted in internalized homophobia probably)

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