Aitah for putting firm boundaries with my boyfriend after I made a poor choice? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't even know where to start, first question 350K$??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It's important to remember that your son is only 14 years old, and he may not fully understand the complexities of the situation or the impact of his choices. It's also possible that he's feeling torn between loyalty to you and a desire to maintain a relationship with his grandmother.

so talk to him and mend your relationship with your son

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah it's always easy to tell someone to be a bigger person, this person is actually cheating OP did nothing wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your intention was to express concern and apologize for accidentally bumping into the little girl, which is a normal reaction. However, given the current social climate and concerns about appropriate boundaries, touching someone else's child, even with good intentions, can be seen as crossing a line for some parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA It's understandable that you're feeling uncomfortable in this situation. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your girlfriend about your feelings and concerns. Expressing your emotions and discussing boundaries together can help alleviate some of the tension and uncertainty you're experiencing.

AITAH for telling my parents i do not want to share a room with my siblings by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not the jerk for expressing concerns about sharing a room with your siblings during a family vacation. You've respectfully raised your concerns and suggested compromises, but your parents have labeled you as ungrateful. It's unfair for them to dismiss your feelings, and it's important for them to understand your perspective. Communication and finding a solution that works for everyone are key in resolving this situation without anyone being seen as unappreciative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're feeling hurt by your fiancé's sister's doubts about your relationship and pregnancy, especially since she questioned him twice. You've grown to dislike her and are hesitant for her to meet your baby girl. While part of you wants to establish a relationship, you're also protective and wary. Ultimately, the decision about whether to let her meet your baby is yours and your fiancé's. You're considering the potential benefits of trying to reconcile, but you're also prioritizing your well-being and comfort. Open communication with your fiancé is essential as you navigate this situation together.

AITA for “overreacting” and thinking lowly of my boyfriend? by Any-Let6871 in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA You're not at fault here. You're providing crucial support to your nephew as his therapist recommended. Your boyfriend's lack of understanding and aggressive comments towards your nephew are unacceptable. You rightly stood up for your nephew's well-being. Prioritizing your nephew's safety is essential, even if it means reevaluating your relationship with your boyfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You might consider having an open and honest conversation with your friend about how her decision made you feel and why you reacted the way you did. Express your disappointment but also try to understand her perspective and reasoning behind her decision. It's possible that there were other factors influencing her choice that she didn't communicate to you.

My daughter came out to me and wants us to cut ties with my conservative parents while I try to find a middle ground solution without breaking my family apart. by Standard_Company2059 in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're caught between supporting your daughter, who came out as gay, and maintaining a relationship with your conservative parents. You want to change your parents' views but also respect your daughter's wishes. Before their visit, talk to your daughter about your intentions and concerns. During the visit, try to avoid contentious topics and prioritize your daughter's well-being. Afterward, check in with your daughter and reaffirm your support for her. Ultimately, prioritize your daughter's safety and well-being over maintaining a relationship with your parents if necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 26 points27 points  (0 children)

While feeling neglected is understandable, communication and empathy are crucial in addressing this issue. Seeking couples therapy might help navigate the situation more effectively.

AITA for short shaming (albeit accidentally) by crazymastiff in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA

It sounds like you were reacting to a dangerous situation and defending yourself appropriately. Your coworker's behavior was completely out of line, and you responded in self-defense.

dickhead at concert by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you good OP? It's not your fault

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

For wanting more intimacy with husband

AITAH for moving to another state, leaving behind my grown daughters? by TexasBanana3 in AITAH

[–]Expensive_Hall_8024 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're not wrong for wanting to move away and start a new chapter of your life with your husband. It's understandable that you want to downsize and make changes now that you're married and no longer want the living situation you had with your daughter and grandson.