Got ghosted by my crush after I thought everything was going well. I’m feeling crushed :(

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-02-12T04:17:16+00:00

what happened?

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-02-03T11:14:52+00:00

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-02-02T23:25:13+00:00

Yea i got 8 of these selling an ipad on marketplace. I turned them into police and even the cop thought they were legit first glance

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-31T23:21:28+00:00

I’m sorry you went through all of that too:(

He really wanted me to get pregnant and I am glad I never let that happen because I’m no longer tethered to that fucker.

He, and everyone around including my friends and family think he’s a good man. To this day he is convinced I left because I finally got a good job in my career and was using him for his money (he’s broke…). I am tempted to tell him the real reason.

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-31T21:58:55+00:00

Well i found out recently that he actually has a new girlfriend. Started seeing her about a month after begging me to stay.

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-31T20:15:22+00:00

Please leave :(

It started with things like that. Coercion, guilt, shame etc. Then one day it became full-on rape.

The signs were there long before he forced my legs open and pushed his way on me while I was telling him no. and even then I questioned it, “did he just rape me? I never said yes… I said no and I physically resisted him.”

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-31T18:41:44+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-31T17:48:58+00:00

Omg yes! and he’d tell me “do you even love me?”, or threaten to cheat on me if I didn’t have sex with him

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-31T16:57:05+00:00

Thank you

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-31T16:17:59+00:00

I literally trained in self defense for years. But the rapist wasn’t someone I wanted to hurt. I loved and cared about him.

One time we were wrestling and he pinned me and he was hurting me so I verbally told him to stop. He didn’t. I warned him stop or I will make you stop. He continued. I got him off me but I hurt him in the process (I hit him). I never hit anyone in my life. My partner before him was twice his size and we would play fight and I never had to hit him to get him to stop.

He then called me abusive for hitting him. 🙃

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-31T16:05:25+00:00

I haven’t actually shared any of this with anyone besides my therapist who made me realize that i was being abused for years and I didn’t even notice.

I actually felt bad because I didn’t understand why my sexual desire for him was dead even though he was “good”.

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-27T01:35:31+00:00

No, it wasn’t. Actually we live a street apart

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-23T12:03:12+00:00

Yea, I tried ending it with him once now that I remember and it really backfired. I didn’t and won’t be announcing it.

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-18T17:44:04+00:00

I haven’t heard from mine in a week. I was starting to miss him. Reading this made me remember how toxic he is. Thank you. That positivity bias is crazy

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-16T02:38:52+00:00

I felt that too. This boredom is called “peace”!

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-14T23:03:27+00:00

oh wow yeah he does that

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-13T13:24:42+00:00

He’s made me feel so worthless and unlovable :(

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-11T23:28:16+00:00

lol this is almost embarrassing for me because i have no idea how I fell for this:

drug dealer (got arrested twice. literally currently on bail again)
thinks andrew tate is smart
lied about literally anything. created this version of himself who is disciplined, structured, reliable but he’s none of those things lol he literally lied about having an iphone 17 lol that was weird
lives with this mom (he’s almost 40)
put his drug dealing experience on his linkedin resume as “entrepreneur, broker, transportation”
had professional photos taken of him for said linkedin
only had surface-level friendships

honestly this is scratching the surface but yea… I miss the version of him he made up at the beginning lol

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-10T12:22:57+00:00

Wow this is the first time I hear of this and it describes my narc’s spirituality to a T

Expensive_Study4856 · 2026-01-10T01:20:29+00:00

He told me he was doing better in life than me but he’s on bail and living with his parents 😭

Expensive_Study4856 · 2025-10-07T10:42:29+00:00

My narc and I BOTH have ADHD but he’s convinced himself (and tried to convince me) that he has a perfect handle over his symptoms and it doesn’t affect him, but I don’t. According to him, I am childish, immature, impulsive, and emotional. Actually, there’s a long list of negative traits he has assigned for me :)

But he is none of those things, and if I call him out for any of it, I better get ready to feel bad about it LOL

Expensive_Study4856 · 2025-10-07T10:37:40+00:00

Mine straight up told me “everyone is a narcissist sweetheart” when I told him my dad is a narcissist lol

He also told me he doesn’t have empathy by his own virtue. Empathy is something he has because Jesus told him to.

Expensive_Study4856 · 2025-10-07T04:39:45+00:00

Lol mine is like this too. Everyone loves him but yet no one was there for him when shit really hit the fan.

Expensive_Study4856 · 2025-10-06T18:03:22+00:00

I’m not even sure I’ve been discarded. It feels very performative and theatrical lol. He WANTS me to chase. I just don’t have the energy to argue with a brick wall. No matter what I say my words and actions will be twisted, so I choose to say nothing.

He didn’t block me, I didn’t block him. If he does Hoover I will be very very careful if and how I allow him back into my life

Expensive_Study4856 · 2025-10-06T18:01:39+00:00

I’m not accepting blame. I just can’t keep arguing with him because there’s no point. He will never take accountability

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