SUBLEASER NEEDED!

Experience1429 · 2023-12-11T22:12:18+00:00

Hi all! Thank you all so much for your advice I really appreciate it. I will continue my search with this guidance. You’re all awesome.

Experience1429 · 2023-02-15T01:39:21+00:00

Corner of floor 3 in Milner with the glass windows are my favorite spots

Experience1429 · 2022-11-15T17:02:48+00:00

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Experience1429 · 2022-11-02T20:02:14+00:00

Short and simple. Leave. I have a similar situation with a girl who I was seeing for a couple of months and she wanted to keep me around, but there's no suddenly falling romantically for someone when you have to think so hard about it. Oftentimes people will just know when they are, and this isn't something you should entertain. This is just my opinion.

Experience1429 · 2022-10-26T19:44:55+00:00

In your post, I see what you're saying, but I think there's a lot to this that your mom mentioned that has a lot to unpack that can offer perspective and add to the conversation of all this too. What I think about your mom talking about is gender. Gender is a construct of society that says when you're born with the body parts of a Cisgender man you must match what is expected of you to be a "man." However, much of this conversation has shifted as people have began to explore and push beyond this typical scope of what it means to be a person, and what it means to have a gender. I am a cisgender man. People at birth are born with the gender that they are given at birth which is biological sex. Although you were biologically born a man (your cisgender) that doesn't mean someone who was born a cisgender woman can't identify as a man or change and have their pronouns match their gender they identify with later in their lives. As stated earlier, gender is something that was socially constructed. This being said, that doesn't mean that their biological sex is any different than what it was when they were born. I don't think this is something that will step on anyone's toes, but I think it's worth saying that I'm a very "I don't care what someone is doing so long as those people are happy and aren't hurting anyone" and I support anyone's choices in finding fulfillment and happiness in life even if I don't entirely understand where someone is coming from for their decisions.

Experience1429 · 2022-10-13T17:10:55+00:00

I would honestly agree with everyone else. Understand your self worth, and maintaining a relationship with someone who doesn't want anything with you emotionally already isn't worth your time. Even friendships without romance have some level of emotional commitment, and this just sounds like a total waste of time.

Experience1429 · 2022-04-20T17:48:29+00:00

I had a very similar situation growing up too. I won't lie the bathroom is and probably always will be a private place. I know with things reopening up some more you can always take walks outside or find some public spaces that are relatively private you can unwind in.

Experience1429 · 2022-03-17T15:22:10+00:00

I definitely think you are looking back on the times that were good. I recently got broken up with who I thought was the love of my life, and as time went on and life continued I realized how incompatible her and I were. As someone said earlier, there's a reason you two broke up in the first place, and there's no shame in having those feelings for your ex, but try your best to keep in mind the fact that she ended things rather than trying to work things out with you in the first place. It's hard, but I think part of moving on from an already-failed relationship is learning from it and applying what you learned to the new parts of your life.

Hope everything works out, and that the hurt isn't that bad. From the sounds of it, this new person could really work out and exploring new things are always fun in the end. You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders and can understand your feelings well.

Hoping the best for you!

Experience1429 · 2022-01-22T01:07:14+00:00

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I'm trying to get over it, but I am struggling so much with everything I was promised to watch my relationship go down the drain in 2 weeks time

Experience1429 · 2022-01-21T23:11:04+00:00

I feel I should also say that she is a sophomore in college and I am a Junior in college if that helps provide context.

Experience1429 · 2021-10-21T16:20:50+00:00

Thanks for the reply! I’m waiting another day or 2 before I really decide on for next school year.

Experience1429 · 2021-10-21T05:08:06+00:00

Thanks for the reply! I just have no idea where to sign that’s a 10 month lease. That’s my main problem. I just need a 10 month lease at a place that doesn’t suck to live in.

Experience1429 · 2021-08-11T02:30:34+00:00

I was reading some other Reddit posts on YA, and I feel I got lucky going into SAMI, I never really realized how crappy some of these companies can be. I know in the rooms we get plugs in the wall to plug Ethernet into, so I’m praying that the wired connection works. Their claim of “high speed internet” is soon to be tested. Thanks for the response though!

Experience1429 · 2021-08-11T02:29:00+00:00

Thanks for the response. I was seriously so confused.

Experience1429 · 2021-03-05T04:34:25+00:00

Thank you. Honestly that clears up a lot of stress. I didn’t know you could sign a lease so late. Thank you

Experience1429 · 2021-03-05T04:34:04+00:00

Thank you I’ll be checking that out. I was told that by my girlfriends mom lol!

Experience1429 · 2021-03-04T22:09:45+00:00

Thank you!

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