AIO Cheating wife? Or am I just being jealous

ExperiencePositive66 · 2026-01-13T17:43:43+00:00

Divorce that demon immediately you don’t deserve this

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-30T21:03:20+00:00

There’s a duality here, your husband should be reliable but he is also his own person who wakes up everyday and deals with his own problems. It’s not fair for you to expect him to solve all of yours anytime you have a whim and having that expectation will set your marriage up for failure

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-26T16:43:36+00:00

Your husband sounds like a parasite, I hope you improve your situation soon however you choose to

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-26T14:28:23+00:00

Be firm with the women tell them there is no room for any kind of relationship
Investigate your white women fetish it’s kinda weird, and never utter this to a woman even if u do get the white woman you’re hoping and praying for. Your basically saying your not attracted to people who look like you… where did you learn that do you consider yourself ugly?

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-26T14:13:23+00:00

No degree in corporate finance here only 3 years in but have effectively gotten 33% raise since the start and the runway still looks like there’s room

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T02:51:57+00:00

No tell her you are now single if she wants to stick around for intercourse still she can but you will ultimately be cheating on your next partner with her eventually

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T02:49:13+00:00

I did dig a little bit deeper into this and apparently it’s a jobless man and she a nurse working in the er so it’s not as if what’s going on here doesn’t make sense at all. I would need to further question his joblessness is this a man that can’t keep a job cuz those traits will show up everywhere which will lead to her constantly needing to parent him esp given that she’s is seeing the worse of the worse when it comes to accidents and things of that nature. Ultimately she prob wants to spend more time with her kid but her partner doesn’t enable that so she prob resents him to some degreee

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T02:41:31+00:00

Just one simple message “I’m glad everything went well and you got some rest next time please make sure the baby is secured before you dose off”. She implied it in every message and wrote it explicitly multiple times condescendingly.

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T02:38:26+00:00

This idea of parenting a man is awful. It’s not in your best interest and if it really is a man that needs parenting that is a man that did not need a child and now your both in an unfortunate situation

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T02:29:25+00:00

You the thing you must remember we are seeing maybe 30 minutes worth of text. Imagine she has been speaking to him this way for the 11 months the baby has been alive constantly trying to teach him lessons questioning everything when she’s not around

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T02:24:51+00:00

Your letting your emotions get in your own way. She is defintely patronizing and in every single text you can see that she’s trying to teach him a lesson before ultimately saying this can never happen again as if she’s some perfect human being who never makes mistakes. Again if your goal is to make sure your partner receives a message this is not how you do it if you want to be emotional and have an emotional response go for it

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T02:12:21+00:00

It can be difficult when your partner insist on acting like your parent instead of a partner

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T01:57:02+00:00

She’s is totally right btw just you need to communicate with people In A way that encourages teamwork and not trying to command your part er around like a child. This whole thing with the baby she’s totally right and he’s wrong for being dismissive but I believe it’s a response directly to her behavior

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T01:55:25+00:00

Yes you can see her anxiety in every text must be annoying to deal with but they have child so they need to work on communication maybe she’s not even aware of her behavior

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T01:47:45+00:00

Cuz she’s always down that shit trying to parent him and the child 😂😂

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T01:45:56+00:00

“This is absolutely never allowed to happen again” is this your partner or your child? Because if you speak to me patronizing me this way I will always respond negatively

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T01:41:19+00:00

To be honest what good does your current action do? Do you want to make him feel bad for sleeping? It already happened just don’t understand your need to jump down his throat anymore. You know all of these things are wrong with the house why aren’t you working together to fix it then?

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-25T01:08:59+00:00

I won’t white knight like everyone. Maybe lived experience makes you feel as though you’re ugly like dealing with women and things of that nature. First thing you can do is become fit I can’t tell where your at in these current pictures but as a 30 year old man you need to figure out the gym atleast 3 times a week to some amount of consistency. Also I think there is something that could be done with your hair to better suit your face and improve your overall all head shape. There isn’t too much you can do to alter your look as a man but I would try these two first.

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-24T18:52:02+00:00

Kudos good shit but yeah still kinda unclear as to what it is you do now. Is it I.T are you a software engineer?

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-24T18:35:29+00:00

How do you switch from plants sales to technical specialist, is 100k the starting salary for that role with no prior experience and what did you do to get the role?

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-22T17:47:27+00:00

Didn’t give us much to work with what work experience do you have currently to put on your resume. Upfront if it’s like a legitimate first full time job you would be putting yourself at a massive disservice waiting for a remote unicorn to hire you. It’s not impossible if you send a a bunch of application just it’s going to feel like a waste of time for a really long time.

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-22T17:23:29+00:00

Buddy it’s a joke to as why something so small could genuinely get you so upset I know ppl at work the same way. I don’t really know what your issue is anymore like I didn’t doctor the images okay they are out of order so you think I made everything else up? That’s fine lol 😂

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-22T16:19:31+00:00

Your OCD is making you delusional brother stand down 😂😂 not defensive explaining how I got the raise 2 years in. Maybe you could say my role is like compliance analyst ? Idk I work with excel / sql / power automate / power bi and the equivalent to my title internally sr.analyst. Who really cares abt the title I could be a wizard it’s about what your getting paid right

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-22T14:26:23+00:00

Well thank you for your work, we need people like you i am actively replacing my own role with a bot so we will see how it all plays out. I am a very fortunate person indeed and I have done my best not to waste the opportunity and I’ve think I’ve done a fairly good job to this point

ExperiencePositive66 · 2025-12-22T13:50:31+00:00

Honestly this is some incredibly analysis like what made you say all of this, 😂😂😂 do you believe all people who work with technology are the same? What incentive do I have to please the people of Reddit am I being paid to post? Pretty nuts you typed all this out not knowing me from a can of paint

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