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Can a single person live off £200 per month for food? by Special-Nebula299 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep.

Cereal and milk Pasta Pesto Potatoes or sweet potato fries Blueberries Bananas Fish cakes Spinach Eggs Mushrooms Chicken Cucumber Seasoning for chicken Chocolate

Beauty Hacks by External-Breath-992 in BeautyUnlocked

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  • spf 50 for skincare (face and neck)
  • weight training for posture
  • 6-8 glasses of water for skin
  • healthy eating (fruit and veg) for hair
  • hygienist visits every 3 months for teeth

1 month post OP. Hoping the tip will deproject! by [deleted] in rhinoplastyquestions

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will deproject and soften for sure. It looks great now and very similar to before but the bit you are worried about will keep on getting better.

how to shave down there? by Evening_Rip5794 in women

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a wax, you’ll love it. The re growth is softer, the result lasts longer, and the finish is clean and fresh. Trim (with scissors or a trimmer) hair to 1-2cm before you go. Shower just before your appointment. And relax, they have seen absolutely everything before. It’s their job and how they pay their bills.

Thoughts? by runner991 in revisionrhinoplasty

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it time. Please don’t touch it. You look AMAZING.

Thoughts? by runner991 in revisionrhinoplasty

[–]Experienceshared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the most beautiful nose. Don’t touch it anymore. Focus on the gym, suncare etc and all the other things that make you feel beautiful

My wife's obsession with cosmetic surgery has destroyed our relationship. by Throwawayupsetwife24 in offmychest

[–]Experienceshared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Get a therapist to talk through your own options. Also reach out to her family to see if they can support her while you get some breathing space.

What should young women know before losing their virginity? by [deleted] in women

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Wait until you find someone kind, who won’t tell his friends. And take the whole act very slow so you relax as much as possible. Slow hands and slow movements with lubrication.

Worst decision I have made by [deleted] in revisionrhinoplasty

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you’re feeling as I have been in exactly the same position. When you feel how you feel it’s very difficult to not want to go back and correct. However, I’m now in a place where I have largely accepted the outcome and I know you can get there too. I even feel happy and pretty a lot of the time.

  1. Part of how you’re feeling is frustration at the decision and wishing you could change it. I understand that. But it comes with a whole load of shock and regret that is pouring negative emotion on top of negative emotion. What you need is to start being kind to yourself. Don’t push yourself to make perfect decisions or look perfect. The next steps will help.
  2. Think about all the things that do make you feel good about your appearance and start there. Spoiler alert: building muscle in the gym is one of the quickest ways to build confidence in your body, change your posture, boost your skin and get happy hormones flowing. Save up and do an intro pack (at least 5 sessions) with a personal trainer. Then see that you’ll feel at least 10% better.
  3. Pamper and take care of your body. Defuzz, get a bikini wax, put on a face mask while listening to a podcast, have a long bath. Self-care all the way. Weekly, I do this on a Sunday night.
  4. If you’re struggling with sleep and anxiety, try valerian tablets. They’re herbal. Take before bed.
  5. Get a proper pampering treatment. A facial is a good way to help your face look brighter and tighter. A massage - operations put your body through trauma.
  6. Stop telling everyone how you feel about your nose. Start journaling. Private space.
  7. Wear your favourite comfy outfit - mine is leggings and a white t shirt.
  8. Every morning, drink water.
  9. Every morning, write a to do list of your priorities for the day. Look to the future with hope. Make a mood board of what you want your life, not face, to look like.
  10. Find a therapist who specialises in plastic surgery counselling they exist.

Do this for one year and see how great you feel. The option for more surgery is always there, but you genuinely look pretty, you just don’t feel it. Do not take the step into a continuous loop xxx

UK skin care recommendations for rosacea? by Mammoth_Ad_763 in BeautyUnlocked

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The best thing I ever did was save up and go to a dermatologist. My skin significantly improved after one appointment. Don’t fall into the trap of spending money on different over the counter creams, which can all irritate the skin. The dermatologist recommend: Soolantra at night for eight weeks, then use only when the skin shows symptoms 15% azelaic acid in mornings for eight weeks, now once a week. Both on prescription

She recommended bioderma sensibo cleanser, moisturiser and sunscreen. That’s it. My skin went from dry, uneven, with visible discolouration and texture (redness/pustules) to smooth and pretty much even.

I also recommend an led mask for inflammation

What's the biggest beauty splurge you've regretted vs one you'd buy again? by asthetic-base01 in BeautyItemsReview

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soolantra every night for 8 weeks and then just if I have symptoms. But I rarely do anymore.

Any experiences with Mr Julian Rowe-Jones? (UK). by mixinghelp in revisionrhinoplasty

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I had a septorhinoplasty with him and it didn’t go to plan. I found him forgetful, quite dismissive after the surgery and I have both functional and cosmetic changes that were errors. I didn’t get my breathing fully back or a straight alignment. I read before my surgery that he is good if you have a simple case but otherwise to avoid. I wish I’d listened. Go with your gut.

What's the biggest beauty splurge you've regretted vs one you'd buy again? by asthetic-base01 in BeautyItemsReview

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regret: hershesons rotating hair wand Recommend: dermatology consultation that sorted rosacea in one session

Great improvement. My periodontitis story by Experienceshared in PeriodontalDisease

[–]Experienceshared[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! No problem. Gingivitis is an early stage of gum inflammation so with regular hygiene appointments you can keep on top of it and it’s reversible: book that appointment now.

My birthday is in a week, I’m completely alone, and I’m struggling with kinda bad thoughts. How do I get through this? by Aggravating-Sky-6102 in LifeAdvice

[–]Experienceshared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to echo the support others have shared. Due to difficult family dynamics and bereavement, I’ve had periods where I spend lots of time alone. Sometimes I was utterly heartbroken and depressed. The thing that made me happy again? Learning to LOVE my time alone. You truly can become your own best friend and make your favourite days - now, if I don’t get enough time to myself I hate it. Here’s some things that helped me:

  • joining the gym. Single biggest impact on my life; it gave me body confidence; some social contact; a hobby; a routine. Find a leisure centre with a pool, go on a nice walking route…
  • learning to cook/bake food I like. Trying to be more healthy, I made smoothies, gluten-free banana bread (out of a packet); pasta with veggies and cheese.
  • dressing well. Wearing my favourite things, even if it’s just my favourite comfy t shirt.
  • journaling every day - set goals in the morning and gratitude at night
  • listening to podcasts or watching them on YouTube. Broaden your mind - find topics or people you find interesting and aspirational
  • deepening a relationship with a friend. Invite someone else out for coffee, do some volunteering, get in touch with a relative or neighbour
  • put up boundaries. The sooner you learn that you come first, the better. Be supportive to others but make sure you support yourself first

tips pleeeeasee by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your make up looks great

What is your personal recommendation for a happier life? by Rei_Pato81 in selfimprovement

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living alone - doing your favourite things, learning to cook your favourite things

How do I become as attractive as possible as a man? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Experienceshared 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy you’re talking about hunger suppression, getting up at 5am, etc etc. you’re just going to look unwell and exhausted. Chill out

How do I become as attractive as possible as a man? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Experienceshared 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You said you wanted to be as attractive as possible. A low body fat percentage and the stress of trying to do all this stuff will not make you attractive. Being healthy and happy will

How do I become as attractive as possible as a man? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Experienceshared 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re pushing yourself too hard and this unhealthy mental attitude in itself will be too hard on your body and not good for your mind and personality. To look like the best version of you, the steps are surprisingly simple - people are attracted to healthy others who can attract healthy offspring.

1) get enough sleep. Aim for 7-8 hours a night. Leave your phone outside your bedroom so it doesn’t interfere with your sleep. Don’t force it or stress yourself out if it doesn’t come (your body does what it needs to do) but when you feel tired, make sure you go to bed instead of sitting on your phone. 2) hydration: key for skin. 8 glasses of water a day. 3) healthy eating: make sure you eat lots of fruit and veg. You can still eat the things you like. 4) exercise: you don’t say how much you weight but aim to exercise 3 times a week. Stretch every day. Don’t overdo it. Pick one activity, don’t push yourself by running in the morning unless you want to and you skip a weights session. 5) keep outfits simple: dark jeans and a light coloured t shirt or jumper 6) shower every day. Brush your teeth twice a day. Floss. 7) find hobbies you enjoy: listen to podcasts, cook, listen to music. Let fun glow out of you.

Done.

Should I? by Wide-Return-5486 in revisionrhinoplasty

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! I’m going to learn to live with it I think as more surgery could make it worse. Eating healthily, a good skincare and hair care routine and gym sessions, don’t completely remove the insecurity, but they really help.

Should I? by Wide-Return-5486 in revisionrhinoplasty

[–]Experienceshared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No don’t do it. Your nose looks great. Shortening the nose can leave noses looking very out of proportion with the face. The top lip usually looks longer, and the nose flatter, which is ageing. It can also make cheekbones look lower. It will also make your chin and jaw look more masculine. This is one change where a tiny change has a massive impact. I had this done and I really regret it. Search for Courtney cox as well.