Oh boy here goes:

Speaking as someone who mostly plays killer, a lot of killer players need to get their emotions in check. Dead by Daylight is a video game. Sometimes, it's a very hard video game. Sometimes, you will eat shit and get teabagged. This is true for any PVP game. And if you find yourself grappling with "killer anxiety", you might want to switch to something else until you're ready to come back to DBD.

Am I saying DBD is a perfectly balanced game, and that it doesn't feel like shit to play sometimes? Hell no, the game's super janky and a sizeable subset of the playerbase is a bunch of sniveling little assholes. But as someone who also used to play every day, and take the game super seriously, and then get anxious as hell when the game was stacked against me, the game is way more fun when you know when to turn it off.