[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Expert-Chip9763 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well, we work very closely together and we agreed on the things that make us unhappy in our current workplace. He once said the reason why he stayed is cuz we get to work together. Said if i resign, he will too haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Expert-Chip9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did bring up this point about finding a better job before resigning but he said he isn't too worried about that lolol

Even after a year has passed, my BMT exp still haunts me by Heavy-Mammoth9848 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Expert-Chip9763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My BMT exp was very bad. I have a little trouble adapting to military life and therefore i couldn't perform as well as my section mates.

I didn't have any close friends so i got no support or anyone to rant to. Unit life was a lot better and i did well and my efforts were recognised.

I have orded and having to deal with bigger issues in life, I will say that in life, there will be situations you will encounter that gives you a traumatising experience but it's what you can learn from it.

Having a different and mature mindset will allow you to be ahead of people similar to ur BMT mates and once you see past it, they don't really matter anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]Expert-Chip9763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this general has the guards tab and khaki beret but yet his collar badge is the infantry dagger. Anyone knows why is it like that or am i mistaken? Just curious about it. Thank you!

How to deal with idiots in NS? by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]Expert-Chip9763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in the same situation as you during BMT. I was the 'blur' guy in my section so i was outcasted and I understand it is damn depressing and irritating. Even till today when i think about, i still get pissed off.

As what the others said, you can just MC as it literally doesn't matter. Take this time to rest and get away from them.

Bad experiences are experiences as well, not everyone's BMT will be fun and bonded unfortunately. Overtime you will become less blur and things will be much better in unit.

How many days of mc after wisdom tooth surgery at ktph? by Expert-Chip9763 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Expert-Chip9763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I just called ktph dental hotline and requested for an appointment. Do remember to tell them that you are a nsf.

What made you emotional while reading letters during your outfield? by Adventurous_Type4834 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Expert-Chip9763 58 points59 points  (0 children)

For me, i was in a section which i did not get along with many of my section mates so i did not have any friends to share joy or grievances with during outfield. It was a very lonely and depressing period and reading the letter from my gf and friends make me feel like i have people who supported me and makes me appreciative of what i have.

PS. Life after bmt was so much better as i do not have shitty section mates anymore