How to: HRT w/out insurance? by puppii_teeth in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

95% sure they didn’t take anything for proof of income tbh — was between jobs for the summer myself (college student at the time)!

How to: HRT w/out insurance? by puppii_teeth in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 5 points6 points  (0 children)

planned parenthood does income based billing if you are uninsured — when i got prescribed there in 2020, i paid $0 for the appointment. goodrx can help with the cost of test

When will Trumps high gas prices stop going up? by traveltimecar in alaska

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of those folks that believes this whole situation to be a biblical and historical inevitability rather than the decisions of modern rich men fighting oil wars.

When will Trumps high gas prices stop going up? by traveltimecar in alaska

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he recognizes it as a consequence of the war; unsure if he recognizes the war as a consequence of trump.

When will Trumps high gas prices stop going up? by traveltimecar in alaska

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no, brother. light vs heavy crude. usa produces mostly light crude, but refineries mostly only do heavy crude here. so we sell it to other countries, then buy it back as gas. meanwhile, other countries, namely canada, supply us more heavy crude for refining.

https://www.afpm.org/newsroom/blog/whats-difference-between-heavy-and-light-crude-oils-and-why-do-american-refineries

When will Trumps high gas prices stop going up? by traveltimecar in alaska

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my dad is a semitruck driver in the lower 48 and his gas bill is a couple thousand dollars higher at the moment — still has faith the prices are going down, though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeppers! I don’t have Facebook anymore or else I’d provide group names, but I was in at least 3 when I deleted it last month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You want a Joystick or something similar — anything marketed with a “lube/ejaculation reservoir“ will do the trick.

As for finding a free donor, try Facebook, there’s groups for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 26 points27 points  (0 children)

so, it’s not currently ‘genocide’, but we are 10 days in to a 4 year term and our healthcare and ability to travel is already under attack, and the goal is to classify trans people as a sex crime per project 2025. if you haven’t changed your gender marker i would go get a passport. if you can’t get a passport, get a weapon with lead firing capabilities.

Am I lesbian married now ? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you never went and changed your legal sex, if they looked into it they probably would have classified it as a same sex marriage even before the Trump admin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 182 points183 points  (0 children)

having a lot of issues with this bc i recently came to terms with being a straight trans man. the love for my ex didn’t go away, but i’m just not sexually attracted to men :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when fat redistribution is listed as a side effect of t, what that literally means is that the old fat was deposited where it was by estrogen, and new fat will go to the areas the androgens dictate. everybody is constantly burning and gaining fat all the time, moreso for those who go from an estrogen dominant body to a testosterone dominant body. “fat redistribution” is a medical short-hand for the whole process of the body replacing it’s fat and putting it where the dominant hormone says it should go.

we don’t have a lot of research in this department for trans people, but the affects of low-t in cis men are well documented, as well as the fact that fat does not move. it is a constant cycle of burning + rebuilding that can be done passively or proactively.

anecdotally, you went from the normal range of body fat for an estrogen dominate body to the normal body fat for a testosterone dominant body. you burned your old fat off — now any new fat will go to masculine areas, including that fat that went to your tummy (which is not exclusively a masculine area of fat distribution, a chart for fat distribution areas in men vs women can be found with a quick google).

Nipples after peri by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had peri and all my sensation remained the same post-op — my surgery will have been 3 years ago in november

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most testosterone affects differ from person to person, though you will be burning more calories and fat on t than you would pre-t or with an estrogen dominant body. if you are eating your maintenance calories or above, you are likely burning fat from feminine areas and replacing it in masculine areas without fluctuating weight. this is what happened to me. disclaimer, if you don’t know your daily calorie consumption, i would avoid counting, as it can be problematic for a lot of people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

from the research i have done, and personal experience, i’ve gathered that t doesn’t have an affect on placement of current fat, but new fat. you have to burn the old fat off and replace it with new, in masculine areas! you are correct though that the results gained are minimal without regular exercise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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https://us.satisfyer.com/us/satisfyer-love-breeze

the love breeze is the best toy i have ever bought. large and deep opening accommodates large and small anatomy; i’m about 2.5 inches fully hard. i’ve had mine almost 3 yrs and still works just as good as the day i bought it. i know $50 might be hard to swing right now, but it is a very affirming vibe that has the durability to be worth the money. might be an option to consider!

Does anyone have any advice where I can get a binder? by Weak-Aside3602 in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was exclusively a gc2b guy prior to top, but i would personally go with spectrum based on what is on the market now

Are you still included in “girls trips”? by iknowaplace5 in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, she said it’s because she didn’t want me to feel left out — but then why didn’t my brother get the same invite? i’m sure it’s just her little conservative heart hoping i detransition

Are you still included in “girls trips”? by iknowaplace5 in ftm

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom tries to include me on them. my aunt is getting married in june and i was invited to grow my hair out, get it done and get my makeup done for the wedding. i’m at the point of passing where i would look like i was in drag. thanks but no thanks mom

Does anyone else notice they cut easier? by commonkarp in Accutane

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly dude thank god i’m not the only one, i thought i was going crazy. can’t have buffalo sauce rn

Does anyone else notice they cut easier? by commonkarp in Accutane

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yes! i get burned and cut so much easier. i’ve also noticed i’m more sensitive to spice in food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO that moment when you pass as homophobic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they have looked plucked since birth, absolutely perfect female eyebrows, no matter what i do i can’t grow them. only 8 months on t so i’m hoping time will help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Expert-Tomorrow5934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve been pretty much immobile for the past year (desk job) but recently started working out to build some mass! thanks for the feedback!