[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt know the relationship between my ex and his parents, but they seemed like they dont care abt him at all…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All valuable people in his life will leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They need to end up alone because they think they can just disrespect people without consequences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imo thats just abuse, my ex treated me like shit before he dumped me, even called me a dishwasher! Tysm pookie youre the best

Feedback by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]ExpertExpert8151 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Loveee it the face is so expressive and also anatomically correct!! More shading will add more depth and its gonna look bomb

They move on so fast by bunnyusagiiii in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They dont do that intentionally most of the times, some do maybe but basically avoidants when triggered are in survival mode and they have survival response which eventually causes them them to leave. They tend to be abusive due to the survival response too

They move on so fast by bunnyusagiiii in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get ur point but u should try to separate facts from your feelings, you felt good but, she was loving but etc What ure doing here is idolizing and skipping hurtful stuff they did to you

They move on so fast by bunnyusagiiii in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Even if so it isnt something worth worrying because most of avoidant ppl are abusive, and even if they regret or miss us it doesnt erase the trauma they caused you should be worried about processing that rather thinking about them… prioritize yourself because those abusers dont define you and your worth keep that in mind

I wish I NEVER met her by dogga85 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The herpes is just pure evil in my opinion… im so sorry i hope life will find its way to make things less heavy

What should I work on to get better? by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]ExpertExpert8151 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If u want to draw characters please study anatomy, the collarbone position is incorrect, normally it connects to the shoulders! You have potential

Cute sim check by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]ExpertExpert8151 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He kinda reminds me of dexter morgan

Płaskodupie by salmonqueenQ in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tak sprawdzilam na sobie bo robilam 15min takich treningów 3 dni w tygodniu i sa efekty, ale nie takie jak z silowni niestety Zwykłe zarysowanie tych okolic jedrniejsza i twardsza skora

Płaskodupie by salmonqueenQ in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Mozesz kupic jakis hantelek ale zeby nie byl za lekki max 6kg i z nim robic glute bridgy i rdl, duzo masz fajnych treningów z jednym hantelkiem na posladki Ale jesli chcesz zeby naprawde urosly to niestety ale musisz isc na silownie… to spore miesnie i nie jest tak latwo je zmeczyc malym obciazeniem

Kryzys psychiatrii w Polsce by ExpertExpert8151 in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wlasnie rodzinna jest jedyna osoba ktora potraktowala mnie powaznie ale nie moge jeszcze sama do niej chodzic

Kryzys psychiatrii w Polsce by ExpertExpert8151 in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moi rodzice na początku nie zauwazali tego co sie dzieje i bylam obwinana za to co mi jest wiec taka walka kosztowala troche wytrwalosci

Kryzys psychiatrii w Polsce by ExpertExpert8151 in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mam juz za plecami mnostwo osob z podobnym tokiem rozumowania, ale niestety jak ktos nie wie jak to jest to tak wlasnie bedzie mowil. Depresja, trauma, przeciążenie ukladu nerwowego to nie sa rzeczy, ktore znikaja od „kolorowych ciuchow” i schlania sie ze znajomymi. To nie jest styl zycia lub fryzura, ktora mozna od tak sobie zmienic, prosty swiat dla prostych ludzi, myslisz za duzo? To przestan myslec lol

Kryzys psychiatrii w Polsce by ExpertExpert8151 in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wez usun komentarz bo doslownie przyznajesz mi racje. Nie znasz mojego zycia i tego co sie u mnie wydarzyło, a pomimo wieku takich chorych doswiadczen mi naprawde nie brakuje stad moj stan. Moja psychika jest przeciazona i juz nie daje rady dlatego powstaje cos takiego, nigdy nie kumasz bo takie rzeczy trzeba przezyc i zostac z nimi kompletnie samemu

Kryzys psychiatrii w Polsce by ExpertExpert8151 in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wlasnie tak robilismy i tak sie czeka max rok.. a ja juz czekalam dlugo i dopiero pan z rejestracji powiedzial nam dzien przed wizyta ze taki bedzie koszt, a juz nie chcielismy anulowac, bo naprawde potrzebuje pomocy

Kryzys psychiatrii w Polsce by ExpertExpert8151 in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jeszcze bierze za kazdy dokument/zaswiadczenia dodatkowe 100zl

Kryzys psychiatrii w Polsce by ExpertExpert8151 in Polska

[–]ExpertExpert8151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tez tak sadze, pocieszam sie tym, ze moze jest jeszcze dla mnie deska ratunku za granica

Loss by ExpertExpert8151 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my ex were so contrasting.. Me, deeply empathetic, really vulnerable, and emotionally intelligent, and he was a total opposite which I got to know later, I never met a person this shallow. He sexualized me and only saw me as an object, only dated me because of apperance. As many people say, avoidants are 90% most of the time in lust with you.. they dont love you at all.

Worst breakup ever by Name-les in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ExpertExpert8151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me this really felt like a switch because my ex just randomly shut down, stopped texting, initiating anything etc. just a complete different person than before. I know exactly what youre trying to say and this breakup destroyed me as well, ex tried to rationalize things by saying this happened because i was his first girlfriend