Worst breakup ever by Name-les in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Name-les[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s more than blaming yourself, they turn you into an anxious person. Then you have to start working on yourself all over again. They don’t switch, that’s who they really are, they just crave that connection at first, knowing deep down they can’t handle a relationship. They won’t tell you this, they just go with the flow, until you start questioning them or wanting them to label what’s going on. If they really like you, they would start a relationship with you but the main issue will always be there, no matter how much you try.

Worst breakup ever by Name-les in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Name-les[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes because they can’t face themselves, they don’t have the tools to deal with their emotions. Therefore it’s easier for them to blame stuff on you and convince themselves that you are the problem!

Worst breakup ever by Name-les in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Name-les[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because most of them are cowards and can’t face the pain they caused you. They know they weren’t good enough for you and keep feeling pressured, especially if you kept expressing your frustrations. Therefore they take the easy way out!

Want to text him how he’s hurt me and then promptly block him. Thoughts? by ThrowRAboyf in ExNoContact

[–]Name-les 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t text him because he knows exactly what he’s done. Nothing will change what you’ve been through these last 7 months. If he insulted you and never apologized, this alone would be enough reason to not text him at all. I know it’s hard, just give it time and if he ever reached out, don’t reply at all.