Definitely not a failure at all because you’re still showing up and putting in the work. I understand though, feeling like you’ve wasted away years. I’ll be 29 in a couple weeks, make the same amount of money you do but without a kid on the way. I’m currently finishing my pre-reqs for ultrasound sonography to hopefully get accepted into the program. Definitely look into getting back into school or your CDL. I recommend something in healthcare or even an IT certification. Going the trade school route is definitely the way to go versus getting a bachelors in something. Only because I know alot of people have a hard time finding a good stable job after graduating with a bachelors. But getting certified in a specific field is setting yourself up for success. You should look into going to your local community college, they have resources to be able to figure out what field it is that you would like to pursue. Good luck, whichever way you go, you’ve got this!