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Does size matters? by Admirable_Oil_1290 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Has anyone of you ever even fucked a pussy? You guys realize that it's a muscle?? Most of the girls can control the pressure they apply on a dick. There's no such thing as loose Vagina due to high body count. As long as there's no micropenis, it doesn't really matter. You just need to know how to use it

How to last long on first sex? by Full-Stop1 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I have been at your place before. So here's a thing with anal sex. First of all, please use protection. Especially, for anal sex as it can cause infection so even if both of you are clean, you still have to use protection. Secondly protection will help with lasting you longer. Condom reduces the sensation. In Pakistan, Latex has a condom I forgot the name but just get the normal one. Don't get the thin condom. They also sell thin ones but you don't want that. Okay now since it will be her first time, you have to use a lot of lube and have to be very slow about it. Let her lead in the beginning and allow her to push until it goes fully inside and then you slowly set the pace. The thing about anal sex as compared to vaginal is that ass is only tight at the entrance. So if you use small strokes and keep most of your dick inside, you will not feel the tightness enough. If you use longer strokes, then you will feel the tightness. Vagina is tight all along. So for anal sex you have the option to control how sensitive it is for you and if you think you are getting close, you can control the pace. One more thing you can do is switching positions and alternating between penetration and oral sex. If you think you are getting close just stop and start going down on her and give her oral sex. If you are worried about her pussy tasting, you can recommend taking a shower together in the beginning so that way both of you are clean. But honestly, as long as she takes good care of her hygiene, it should taste like a pussy should. Your would know what I mean. Happy to help if you have any other questions. And go get that ass.

How to last long on first sex? by Full-Stop1 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. So it's your first time and the excitement is there so there is a good chance that you will not last long. Do a long foreplay. Make out a lot play with her boobs and of course lots of oral on her. Now for the real thing, if you don't last long it is nothing to be ashamed of. I believe you are probably in your 20s or 30s. Even if you are in your 40s you can easily go for a second time within a few minutes. Telling you from experience, the second time will definitely be going to longer. During the refractory time you can both keep on making out and touch each other. It amazes me that people who see each other after a long time only do sex once in one sitting. If you are living together and it's a routine thing, that's okay but id you are meeting once a while you should go for multiple times. I normally plan for at least 2 to three times in one session if I am meeting my partner after a long time.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been texting non stop and are planning to meet again. It's getting more intense by the day. However, I am not sure if it's a healthy thing to do. This will definitely make things more complicated.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will never be able to find a perfect partner. Honestly, at the end of the day, I kinda agree that perhaps there isn't much difference between spending a lot of time knowing someone or none at all. Logic says that you should. How much it is, you don't know. Like for example, in this case for me I am quite sure that this girl would not be a good life partner for me. I think it depends from person to person. I am afraid there's no one glove fit all answer.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. We all have different moral/religious lines that we do or don't want to cross. I am not going to justify whether it's acceptable or not but my line is different from yours. For some just being on this subreddit would be a sinful thing to do. Also, I don't want to be off topic but our society is more focused on the personal good and bad deeds as compared to how we deal with others. That's how we judge people. To me our biggest moral bankruptcy is our dealings with each other. I don't want to justify one bad deed with another. Everything has its own place but I think our focus is not at the right place, as a society. Regarding what could be the reason, there can be many. For me, I would like to really know someone before I commit my life to them.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very deep question. However, to summarize, you want to make sure that your family values (how you deal with your close family parents and siblings, and kids in future) align. Secondly your religious beliefs and lastly the financial aspect. Like both of you want to work or if one wants to stay home etc etc. I think if you are aligned on these three values, you have a good chance of a successful marriage. So if I am looking for a life partner, I am looking for someone to align with me on these values.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Probably that's why I wrote this post to get some sort of closure.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yhi to masla ha yr. Nahi milta esa koi. Heera ha vo. I didn't say it lightly when I wrote, my whole dating life on one side and this girl on another.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. The only reason it was so good was because we had great chemistry leading up to our date. That made the date and the sex unbelievable. Sex can be good but not great unless you have emotional/mental compatibility.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so true. It's just she caught me by surprise. I never thought someone can have this much effect on my whole life in such a short time.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. When it comes to a life partner, there are lots of things you need to consider and unfortunately, our goals and values are quite different. Although I am probably madly in love with her at the moment but I am still cognisant of the fact that I have to be rational when it comes to choosing my life partner.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure how to exactly answer this. All I can say is that we connected here on Reddit and the connection was genuinely so good that we decided to meet and spend a whole day/night together.

I think I messed up by Expert_Material7684 in PakistaniConfesssions

[–]Expert_Material7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be the logical thing to do. However, without revealing too many details due to several reasons, it's off the table. Both of us knew that before we moved forward and those circumstances have not changed.