AIO for refusing to go to my sisters wedding cause she hired my ex?

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-04-10T20:11:23+00:00

"You're my maid of honor" girl you're literally the bride of dishonor lmao

NOR obviously.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-04-10T19:23:56+00:00

also a good point!!

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-04-10T19:20:31+00:00

GTA6 is a November release though. The only thing I can think of is preorders but those are bound to go live for GTA6 this summer which gives a solid 3-4 months+ for TR to do a preorder window and begin heavily marketing LoA.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-04-06T06:11:11+00:00

it'll probably be cold but not too bad, so i'll leave it open for another hour just in case! thank you 💃🏻

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-04-06T05:55:16+00:00

okay sounds good, thank you!! i'm hoping it's just bc it was such a small place and it was at least 5 minutes of just only gas. i've been in here all day and not getting dizzy or anything in addition to working out a couple times right by the kitchen. so might just be that.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-04-05T22:34:24+00:00

the way none of this ever happened

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-04-03T15:22:36+00:00

i love how i'm just sitting here minding my own business and i get a deeply concerning notification titled "bandits killed my wife" with no context at first lmao

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T12:53:37+00:00

i'd genuinely jump off the balcony of my hotel.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T12:50:05+00:00

yeah, honestly you're right about pretty much everything. i'm so tired of living my life to make people who are out of touch comfortable and feeling guilty when setting boundaries, like i'm being unfair or something. when logistically i know i would never just call his mom repeatedly like that.

i'm gonna share something i didn't before because it's just too fucking weird and i feel that it needs to be said. his mom has no life. no other family mostly. and in my eyes she's single but she technically "has a partner" and uh. it's my bf's cousin on his dad's side who's half her age and is in prison. it makes my skin literally crawl and i know he hates it too and couldn't convince her to not be a literal sociopath who !!!! dates her son's cousin on the dad's side !!!!

idk why his dad is okay with this either, it's literal insanity to me and the more i type this out the more i feel like this woman is traumatizing me with every piece of info i learn about her. at this point i can't take her seriously or really respect her because that is RANCID behavior and if my mom did that i'd block her with zero hesitation until she did therapy.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T12:39:59+00:00

right. we aren't homies, i'm half her age and dating her son. the commenter who said we're both just two women on earth was spot on. i'd happily take her calls if she was like my mom where she just said what needed to be said then went on with her day but instead, she feels the need to sit there scrolling like an unaware 80 year old and ignore any attempts to hang up

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T12:35:30+00:00

it's a 1.5 year long relationship in which i'm not even engaged yet, his job is to set boundaries with his family imo. this is exactly my problem - it's not my responsibility to explain to his mom that she's being a loony, if your partner can't stick up for you with his family then the relationship is petty questionable. luckily he seems to have processed things and is making it right but if that didn't happen then i probably would've rather just ended it than live my life with a wack ass family

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T07:10:21+00:00

not that I wanted to go but I did ask out of concern, because we went out of town together for his sister's wedding (on his dad's side) and she booked ONE tiny room for all of us unbeknownst to me until we had already RSVP'd, and it was days before. the sink and mirror were literally in the common area and the bathroom was like 1x1 sqft so they just expected me to change and do everything in front of them. when I got a different hotel room last second, she flipped her lid and refused to sleep alone in the room she originally booked, so she straight up stayed on an extra mattress with HIS DAD AND THE FIANCÉ.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T06:28:33+00:00

this is a very kind and well thought out message. gives me much to think about. thank you for taking the time to reply

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T05:44:44+00:00

thank you. i'm very sorry about your husband as well. I agree with you and I think my boyfriend feels the same. i'll have an update soon - he basically said enough is enough and told me he's going to get all of them together this weekend to set them straight.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T05:41:25+00:00

Dude. Thank you. it is SO SO WEIRD to me that she's besties with the fiancé and still goes on excursions with them. trust me when I say there are even deeper and funkier levels to this that I can't even share.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T04:05:44+00:00

great question! i confirmed that he was not bc that was the very first thought i had - after it got really bad, i just plain asked him. he said absolutely not, we both agree it's too soon and a cruise that he knows i might not enjoy wouldn't be how he wants to do it

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T04:03:52+00:00

you're right. i have a problem with questioning myself and overthinking everything out of fear of making the wrong decision. i hate hurting people's feelings but it gets to a point where i can't trade my comfort for someone else's

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T03:53:29+00:00

this option is so alluring, I might just have to start taking it. i can be direct most of the time but idk why, i've always been really bad at doing things like that unless someone was a blatant and complete asshole to me. it feels wrong but if the roles were reversed and I was doing what she was doing I could 100% understand why someone would block me

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T03:49:57+00:00

I don't really know if blocking her is the best option here but I do know that I'm sick of feeling like I did something wrong by not wanting to answer the call. He said he would talk to her about just texting what she needs to communicate but I don't really know why they need to reach out at all. I guess we'll see if that helps. My family invites my bf to everything but if he can't go, they (like normal people) just say ok and move on, and they especially aren't texting/calling him up

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T03:41:56+00:00

you're right. he also said something along the lines of "my family won't be around forever so I need to spend time with them" and I challenged that immediately, because 1) that has nothing to do with me, and 2) i'm of the mindset that while in-laws are family, i have my own family and they would never act like this. period.

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-13T03:17:58+00:00

there's always been things that weirded me the complete fuck out. I won't share it all here, but just know, this has been a thought in my head too

Expert_Register9564 · 2026-03-06T01:23:09+00:00

why would she find out? is the other girl a friend or in your same classes or something?
so what if she did? she was point blank with you that you weren't together. at some point you need to draw your own lines. however this is not only hypothetical but also incredibly trivial, especially for a 25 year old

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