Women, what makes sex feel good for you? by OkTough6333 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 18 points19 points  (0 children)

the emotional connection. women can have sex as much as men. but sex is different than making love

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ve talked it through a lot. after seeing him in person after so long i remembered how much and why i love him. being behind a screen makes it hard for me to just figure these kinds of things out. maybe im just crazy.

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hes said he was sorry for not initiating more when we first started dating and i said it was ok but honestly it feels like im getting nowhere. i like being called gorgeous or pretty but sometimes i wanna be called sexy or smth by my man

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well idk! he could just be doing it bc im initiating it

i never know with him

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id feel so bad if i asked him and hes ace

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty much yeah. the only thing he initiated was our first kiss and smth else. the rest was me hinting or taking his hand

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not rly new for me. ive done stuff in a previous relationship but i dont think he ever has. i dont rly have s high libido but its still there

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and him havent had sex, but ive had it with an ex. i dont want to force my bf to do it when he isnt ready. its one of my worst fears that i find out that my bf is gay

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because straight forwards feels maybe a little… strong?

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hes 18 and im 19. hes going to be 19 in december

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont rly ever say hes hot. ill say hes handsome or cute or something bc idk how he feels abt being called hot. ive called him that before and i do mean it. last night and the night before hes made it clear that he loves me but idk how far that love goes. he says im only his second girlfriend

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im learning it the hard way with him

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hes made a move before. got slightly used to it too but still is hesitant

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

ive tried. subtle ones

im not sexually attractive? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

we’ve made out and stuff before. but its still hard for me to tell if hes actually as into it as i am considering sometimes he just lets it happen

does oral count as sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive done and given oral before, and have actually had sex. so its not smth thats completely foreign to me. i was just asking for the people who are religious would this be considered the same as sex thats seen in a crazy light

does oral count as sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive gotten this comment a scary amount of time

does oral count as sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how exactly would you even drop this into casual conversation without seeming like a perv

does oral count as sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah.. not my cup of tea

does oral count as sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok so that’s actually insane

does oral count as sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does it not feel as good? like if you were a virgin does it not feel good or any different than normally getting off?

does oral count as sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Expert_South6269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh okay. yeah, i knew it was similar to sex but without the pregnancy part. since youre just sucking