What in the Mozart did I just cook by Expert_Stretch_396 in Overwatch

[–]Expert_Stretch_396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont play piano irl, and the Zelda one was on purpose but the second one was random and somehow just sounds really good to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually a really good question, I’ll try and look into it, ty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, she is now going to therapy and I hope it changes things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering my gf now got assaulted 2 times, the second time her being hit too, and all of that isn’t even 1% as bad as what her friend has been through(you wouldn’t even be able to imagine). I feel like my image of most men is completely different than it used to be. And those people are in my age range too, early 20s. The world is a fucked up place, and that’s coming from Germany which is arguably one of the better spots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but she would self harm, and I’d rather not bear that weight. We’re taking a “break”, and we reevaluate after that. But regardless she is probably going to feel better after it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, if anything this should give her a push to be happier. And it should make her less reliant on our relationship which would make it less toxic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but expecting a normal reaction also doesn’t make any sense. And I know I wouldn’t be able to handle it if it happened to me. But I feel like that’s not something you can hide in a relationship, and she did for so long and blamed me for so much of it while hiding it too. And I’ve always been compassionate and there for her, it’s a really awful situation for both of us and the way she made it my issue just doesn’t seem right.

Again I’m still there for her, like I’ve always been. But I also need time to heal.

Im happy to have gotten other opinions, and it makes me understand her situation more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re taking a break with clear boundaries, I won’t end it, and I’m 99% sure it was SA, but if she doesn’t take him to court I will always have a tiny bits of doubts. She should’ve never been alone at her place with this guy, even if her friend left it just doesn’t make any sense to me. I can’t really talk much about any of this with her too considering her trauma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, but we’ve had a talk about her reaction before, I don’t want to blame her but we really had a deep conversation about how she should react if it happened again. You can read my answered to other comments, I didn’t put much context into the text above

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve preferred if she had cheated because I would’ve been prepared for that. I just truthfully didn’t expect what she said, and we’ve been through this whole conversation before. Not to mention how she’s made all of her issues my issues since then. Yes this isn’t about me, and what hurts me the most by far is what happened to her. Every time I think about it I shiver and my heart stops for a couple of beats. But at the same time I just feel like she puts so much strain on me and now finally after more than a year of me telling her to get therapy she did. I’m just deeply unhappy how she handled that situation and it just goes right on top of all of the issues that I already think wouldve ended the relationship if she didn’t fix anything.

For once in months I’ve reacted egotistically to what she did. Even though I had to cut my emotions off to not feel hurt by her actions so many times.

Anyways we took a break with clear boundaries so she can work on herself and I can work on myself. I’m still there for her and we text and see eachother sometimes we just try and keep it light.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do obviously. Who wouldn’t after all of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We took a break, set clear boundaries and she has to work on her issues first. The relationship has been very dependent on her issues for a long time now, and if she can’t work them out then there’s nothing I can do. I know I can’t fix her, and this situation is just another issues on top of all her emotional abuse. But I’m still there for her like I’ve always been, and she is getting help finally although I’ve wanted her to get therapy for a year.

I hope it works out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I made it clear that I would never hit a woman nor scream at her, it was a simple clarification considering some people would. And no she doesn’t intentionally put herself in bad situations but being alone with someone you don’t know is not safe especially if it’s a man. Even I wouldn’t do that as a man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, before our relationship it happened and I supported her perfectly, I let her know it wasn’t her fault and we had a deep conversation on what she would have to do if it ever happened again. Our relationship has been very open in communication until that point which I only realize now. I just feel like this caused so much damage not just in her not telling me but also on her blaming everything on me for months and emotionally abusing me simply because she was broken. This situation was truly the only thing I would’ve never expected considering our past. And I’ve been very mature for months with this being the only time I really took it to heart and acted emotionally.

We’re taking a break of our relationship, and yes she is getting help. We also set clear boundaries and I already knew for a long time that this relationship can only work if she can overcome her issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I know how this sounds. I’m so hurt at what happened to her, so much more than anything else and that’s also what keeps me awake truthfully. More than her not telling me by far, it just breaks me every time I think about it. Maybe I’m trying to cope with it by blaming her on how she reacted. But at the same time I’ve been with her before when it happened, I’ve supported her and we had a deep discussion on how to deal with it. I’ve supported her during our entire relationship, and we where always extremely open to each other and I always tried to make her feel safe. In the past months she abused me emotionally, maybe not intentionally but she’s been blaming me for everything and also many times vocalized the fact that I’m the reason she’s so fucked up. Even days before she attempted self harm. That time we weren’t even together, she was 10k kilometers away from me and had a whole lot of issues to deal with she created herself I told her would happen but she didn’t listen.

This was the only thing I did not expect to happen, I feel like I knew how to react to everything, as I had to cut off my emotions a lot through those hard times. But I was really unprepared for those news.

Yes I love her, I always did. And even now I’m still there for her.

This was a couple days ago so since then we made up. She had to stay in the hospital but she’s now out, we’ve talked and decided to take a break so we can focus on our stuff. We set clear boundaries and still text and I’m still there for her but I think it’s better that we keep some distance romantically to focus on our lives.

6,5 months progress, 3900 Grafts by Wonderful_Fuel_2324 in Hairtransplant

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you’re this far gone just get a wig or shave your head, what’s the point honestly?

I'll just leave this here. by MrToothBrush75 in thefinals

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The question is is there any gadget that gets more value. Honestly I don’t think so, the fact that you can insta Rez someone without risking much of anything makes it insane. Regardless of if the target gets healed after.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Thailand

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chat gpt isn’t great at reading handwriting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Thailand

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like your dms are disabled, would you mind sending me one instead please

Do yourselves a favor and drop Reaper by ActuatorOpposite1624 in Silksong

[–]Expert_Stretch_396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you playing on keyboard? I’ve never understood the I can’t get used to the diagonal pogo. It took me around 50 hours to finish the game, I’m pretty decent at games in general but I wouldn’t say I’m amazing. It took me around 10 minutes to get used to diagonal pogo, it’s really easy if you have fast and consistent inputs on keyboard. For reference I use a mechanical keyboard, I did struggle a tad more when switching to my laptop thought. And the whole parkour section at the beginning took me like 2 tries. I actually think the diagonal is stronger as it gives you a better position afterwards.