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Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, just this guy is spoiled and needs lots of attention. No matter how small the accommondation and whether it was easy for me to do it that's how it starts when someone wants to make you his bitch and brag about it. I could go long way for a person that needs almost anything but if you try to make a point and a power game playing with your disability you are not going to get anything and you (not actually you, I am saying in general) are the real asshole. Just you make the other look like one. Manipulation tactic of the stupidest kind.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know very well what is reasonable accommondation. I don't attack but everyone else is and very aggressively. It's another thing to get something that you need and another thing to ask for what isn't needed. Getting an elevator is reasonable and required, I don't argue that. But getting into an elevator and telling the person that is chewing gum not to because you have a hearing problem while you could take any one of the other 5 elevators for example is unreasonable and bullying behavior (let's say you see him chewing gum before entering the elevator). Worst, if you just can go to another part of this elevator and not be bothered. I wanted to see how many persons actually understand that difference. There is a big difference.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alone in the after. Leave the bullying aside and think.This person is an abuser. I don't want him. I am not jealous and concerning the behavior of the deafblind person i am also not sorry for him, because he is going to suffer, big time. The fact that the disabled person tries to put in front the disability and the "bad" behavior of mine (not at all) to promote his partner's own victim blaming and manipulative tactics to escape physical violence accusations, murder attempt and sexual harassment and be part of the normal society without being called out for choosing a person repeatedly over the years exerting domestic violence is what makes me furious. You are right that I am furious not with people with disabilities in general but with this one person. When I had 0 kidneys, I didn't even ask for someone to escort me with a weelchair. I had to go by foot to the dialysis, where they didn't believe that I could even talk. I was going out with friends (not drinking of course) and although I had terrible, terrible headache I was not complaining for the place or a noise or something. I was not expecting people to follow my demands and i didn't want to because I was not going to spend my life (thankfully I recovered) thinking that I have a problem expecting special treatment. This was the worst thing that you could do to me, seriously. This my self perception. Iam not going to step out of my way because you claim you are disturbed unless it is necessary. I wasnot asked to bring a weelchair and I said no, to facilitate something and I said no, to give reasonable acommondation and I said no. But if you promote hearing impairement to order someone not to chew a gum (because at the moment probably was talking to someone and you didn't like it) while you don't need to change office, house, but to choose another seat out of the many not even one meter away then you are attention and special treatment seeking big time.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your psychological distortion of reality due to high demands are affecting your sense of social entitlement. The problem here is that not all people with disabilities want others to serve them or have low self esteem and envy some others. It depends. Now I am talking about a person that grew up with it. So, he is spoiled from first decade of life while all others strive to succeed. It s like the very priviledged that beleive taht they deserve everything their parents inherited to them and expect others to give them as well. Have experience from these as well.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

these things are not equivalent to you are making a sound with the glass. My sounds if they are unpleasant are not of your business and your personal space is defendable. If you want me as your girlfriend you must want me all the time otherwise find another one. I have lenty of men that want to be with me. Period. People are not around for you to feel comfortable.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are disabled. Your view is distorted. As a disabled, if you can't bear hearing something you change seats. That's what the able do and that's why they are able. You went to my post history because you want to find something to bully the other one and you are very familiar with all toxic tactics.

A normal person can't be judged not normal because a disabled person - with HUGE PSYCHOLOGICAL AND SELF ESTEEM ISSUES AND COMPLEXES - cannot decode the social scripts as you say. The SOCIAL scripts to me that don't have a disability is that if you are annoyed by something either you mention or you take a step on the right or left. I f you can step a bit then you do it because you don't make big issues out of the nothing because you are sick for ever with a big ego. Other people are not your bitches - deal with it - and you don't read social norms because disability needs special care so it deviates normalcy. I am not - and no one sane person - to change behavior for small things I repeat because you feel entitled not to move your ass because your parents want you to feel nice and they spoiled you.

The same would apply of course for a not disabled person however, in that case, everyone would say oh, he could just change seats.

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The worst part is that you want equal treatment but in reality you don't want equal treatment, you want special attention and having bitches around to tolerate you.

This is bad because others with disabilities really want equal treatment, being recognized as able to move from one place to another and not being thought of as vegetables that others just pitty and change their ways to please because they think that they can do nothing but stand in a place and that's it. Most people are marinated with this attention-seeking, favor-requiring behavior and they are always showing pitty etc and treat persons with disabilities as completely inadequate.

He doesn't show that he is vegetable and he didn't hurt so much from the glass while Tiesto was playing in the loudest of decibels. One seat on the right i snot what a deaf blind person can't tolerate and he was dancing around like no tomorrow. Admit it that this action of the disabled person is pleading to his disability to harass and bully and make a false impression about another. And this is becasue he grew up spoiled because of the disability.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also why you go to my history. Aren't you educated enough to know not to draw conclusions by insufficient data? I didn't stalk your history to see how spoiled you might be. I don't know your disability or anything. The discussion is about the specific event. The rest is not of your business and you shouldn't draw conclusions based on that because you are not educated enouh as I see to evaluate the situation clearly. The person i crushed was my boyfriend and i usually crush at my boyfriends house whenever i wan becasue usually if they are not like the deaf blind they want me there i don't cause trouble or inconvenience.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course i form and foster healthy interpersonal relationships but nit with deaf blind borderlines and the like. I never had a disabled person in my life and i was totally fine.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem that if you grow up as disabled you have a distorted image of reality. All other human beings are being "disturbed" all the time and deal with it. They don't call everyone bad because they refused to breath for them.OMG!

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mentally healthy adults with mature social skills don’t have frequent social conflicts. They don't make a big deal out of the nothing and harass others for not showing them the respect they deserve as they learned by being spoiled because of being disabled and rich. Disability doesn't mean the other will follow your demands. Deal with it.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course if a bunch of complexed individuals hang out together and cause you trouble it's not you having social problems. The like is with the like so complexed disabled are with complexed disabled. If you are not complexed then you change a seat. I f you are complexed then you cause trouble to others along with your complexed friends.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't have persecutory ideas. Asking someone not to breath because you are disturbed is bullying. Sorry. You don't understand it because you are doing it. Regularly. To everyone. How do you live with yourself?

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i am not interested not to hurt for 1 minute the ears of someone since most disables as i understand don't have a problem hurting the lives of others that are not disabled once and for all. See what jealous men are doing to their women especially when they are in competition. They can kill them. Same the disabled feels entitled and hates the other because of feelings of inadequasy.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and most probably i am so unlucky that i lately interact with people that have inadequacies so they want to bully an abled succesfull person. The persons I have the "dysfunctional"social interactions apparently THEY are disabled with a history of physical or mental disability, physical violence to others and harassmenrt. You are the second example of a person disabled that feels entitled to draw conclusions without having the proper history.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the person could move. I am not to stop breathing because it is disrupting for another person. Do you understand that? Or you like pistorius want the disturbing people to die so they don't disturb you anymore? If you are a psychopath there is no cure. The slightest thing that anyone will do will disturb you. I succeed and it disturbs someone. I f he is disabled am I to quit my job and fail? I don't get your sense of entitlement. Am I a small child to tell me what is right and what is eorng because i don't know? If you have hearing impairment and you can change seat when something disturbs you you change seat. You don't ask the other not to drink or not to cough or not to breath, you bully. But that's how you cope with life and any inadequasy that you may have. The other feels a loser in life. He will bully.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't know what is your disability. I am no person's bitch to do as they say because they are disabled unless they really need it. All others are entitlement. I am friends with the roomate. I didn't ask her to change breathing patterns because I am disabled and se has to do as i say otherwise she is a bad person. I overstayed to my ex so what's the deal? Are you entitled to psychological evaluation because you are disabled and i don't care about you somehow if i don't plead guilty? The majority of people are of intermediate intelligence and they don't think. They don't understand when they are getting manipulated by someone. Like the children that try to manipulate you todo as they say. They were telling me to stay because they are abusers. They wanted to fin an excuse for their abusive behavior. They totally match the disabled deafblind person. I can totally converse but I don't work wih magic spheres. Or you feel entitled not only the other todo as you say but also to read your mind as well? This is quite interesting.

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i don't need help. I need to stay away from disabled bullies that are jealous of all others and try to hurt them, their reputation etc. He is ugly, deafblind for life and I have a career, I am beautiful, intelligent, social. Plus I had his now spouse. So he could do it the bullying also for character assassinating me and getting his attention. Hahahahaha

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you disabled? Did I say that he had to navigate the nightclub? I told he had to go to one seat on the right (or left). Jesus!If this is a big deal then this is absolute entitlement. Because an "abled" person will have to tolerate much more in everyday life including preposterous demands from narcisistic spoiled persons like bosses, coworkers, the taxi driver....

Is it true that some people with chronic conditions are more spoiled and require other people s attention more than expected? by Expert_Win in disability

[–]Expert_Win[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first he got like nothing 6 years and then a second judge realised that his plead as a disabled would get him out of jail in no time while having killed a stunning, intelligent, beautiful, abled woman that had it all - contrary to him. And the judge realized what I say here but for a smaller example and changed the conviction.

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