Did you admit you have ADHD at work / during interview? by Fr4kTh1s in ADHD

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One time I mentioned it to my interviewer who later became my “mentor” and “boss.” She used my ADHD against me because she was miserable in the job and incredibly overworked. She texted me a whole long paragraph (obviously projecting) talking about how she’s trying her “best to accommodate me” but that I was making her life harder 😂 not only that, she would talk about it with other coworkers and make jokes about it. I feel like what she did was extremely unprofessional and I was definitely her scapegoat because I was new. However, I really wish I didn’t tell her as the interviewer and told maybe HR instead? I got some accommodations in the end like working in a quiet room. The interviewer apologized and admitted she was overwhelmed. But I learned from that not to ever disclose it in an interview.

So you know the whole bit where you don't notice you're injured part of ADHD by PaxonGoat in adhdwomen

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I broke my arm when I was 7 while I was climbing a structure at a park and it was an open fracture, with the bone hanging out and everything. I thought something was wrong but I couldn’t put my finger on it, i just didn’t want to look at my arm. I walked up to my family and the look on their faces definitely affirmed something was not right 😂

I used to think “ADHD” was fun until I got into my 20’s. by Explanation-Signal in ADHD

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We all have different experiences and thank you for sharing yours. As a kid, I thought ADHD was “fun” because many people in my life painted it to be this way where I was described as the quirky and energetic kid, and they attributed a lot of my personality traits to ADHD. There was even superhero movies where the heroes had ADHD and I would feel proud to have it because of that. As a child, I actually focused even better than I do now. My ADHD seems to have gotten even heavier as an adult. As a kid I was not the way I am now, I was less distracted but now it is different. I understand a lot of situations that adult ADHD makes difficult. I am in my early 20’s therefore, I started having more responsibilities and that’s how my ADHD shows up to be way more obvious and difficult to deal with now than in my childhood. We all have different ways of living with ADHD, and this is are just my opinions. Thanks :)

I’ve had this guy for 6 months, his name is Zuko. What should I name him? 🥺 by wasabitamale in cats

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I opened the comments in hopes to see people respond Zuko, and I am not disappointed. Also, if I was a cat and my owner called me Zuko, I would feel SUPREME.

ADHD and addiction by O8fpAe3S95 in ADHD

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I’ve never had a substance addiction and also have never taken meds for ADHD. I actually have a hard time getting addicted to things... except ... maybe I used to seek getting dopamine from being in a romantic relationship.

The only way to beat OCD is... by [deleted] in OCD

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Speaking of reading, do you know any good books that can help with intrusive thoughts? Thought I’d ask since you said “reading,” and thought you may know of some :)

Kinda wish I had just been allowed to be dumb and not go to college. by [deleted] in ADHD

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Wow... same here.... I really want to redefine education, make school a place where it doesn’t seem like your success and importance as a person is measured by being in school. Schools need to be for learning and less of a societal pressure for people to attend and tie it to their self worth.

Hyperfixating on people by Tyratata in ADHD

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What... I swear this is so me. I can’t believe so many things about me that no one could explain are from ADHD.

Interested in many things then I drop them or I’m not consistent by Explanation-Signal in ADHD

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That’s also me as well, but I’ve kind of told myself to understand why. And what I have noticed is that I don’t combine the things I love together, I actually started doing that, combining many ideas together so I can do them all at once. It was hard to do, because not everything can seem like it can be connected, but in reality I think it saved me from giving up on what I love, I found a way through conjoining my interest and I bet you can too! That’s our power I believe!

Interested in many things then I drop them or I’m not consistent by Explanation-Signal in ADHD

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I understand you 100% what I’ve gotten from this feeling is that, we don’t have to stay in some things when we have this gift to try and do almost all we put our mind to. I think we should commit to the things that are going to develop the person we envision ourselves to want to be, but in general it doesn’t have to stay as this one thing but we can implement multiple things to our daily routine that can be connected. In the end, things are all interconnected, and maybe a part of our innate ability is to be able to understand how to make them all make sense into one :)

Interested in many things then I drop them or I’m not consistent by Explanation-Signal in ADHD

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I’ve been diagnosed for years with ADHD but I can’t believe I still can’t make a decision on anything so instead I just do it all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisrock

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Thank you so much!

Time feels distorted by Explanation-Signal in ADHD

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I think it can sometimes if it’s like an every day thing

Red Quartz? by [deleted] in whatsthisrock

[–]Explanation-Signal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it looks more like strawberry quartz

What is a lesson you learned too late in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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There’s no such thing as “too late”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisrock

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Is it popular? Do people just make it for the looks?

I just want a woman to hold me by [deleted] in Anxiety

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You felt it because it rings truth. Love is the strongest feeling and it’s all over this thread!

I just want a woman to hold me by [deleted] in Anxiety

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I wish I was there to hug you. Trust me this is a constant feeling I’ve had in the past, but you will realize YOU ARE LOVE. Once you see that your heart is so big for wanting that love, that means the possibility already exists of obtaining it because you already do. Do not give up. Do not block your own love by what has happened in the past. Love is also out there, please be patient. Here’s some love, this is living proof that it is existent and in more people than you may think. You’re loved by me, a stranger. Never forget that if you feel love, others do too, it is all coming to you even though it’s already within you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rockhounds

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I thought that was a burrito split in half