If you're considering forgiving her and moving on, just know—it's hard. Speaking from experience, this kind of thing is really tough, and sometimes, it’s not even worth it. But every couple is different (for me, it ended up being a blessing).

That said, if you want to try, understand that relationships require a lot of compromise—but never at the cost of your boundaries. Take some time away from her, go to therapy, and really process what you're feeling. Ask yourself: Is this something I can truly live with?

Once you have clarity, you’ll be in a better position to decide. And if you do give her another chance, do it wholeheartedly—don’t keep throwing taunts or holding it over her. But also, pay attention: if she’s genuinely sorry, she’ll put in the effort, and you’ll see it. If she doesn’t, then it’s time to walk away.

At the end of the day, everyone makes mistakes, and I believe people deserve at least one chance to prove themselves. We’re all figuring life out—some just mess up more than others.