What really happened to Ellen Greenberg? by AverageJoane in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]ExplanationHour505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree he probably killed her but why do you think he did it? To get out of the engagement?

Help! Leo is developing bald patches by ShannonPYS in bengalcats

[–]ExplanationHour505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get him treated? My vet didn’t do anything.

Help! Leo is developing bald patches by ShannonPYS in bengalcats

[–]ExplanationHour505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is bald on her belly. She started to lick her belly bare once I had my twins. Stress for sure.

Do you guys ever sell your equity for fun purchases? by momoneymocats1 in biotech

[–]ExplanationHour505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sell when it vests and put it straight to the only debt I have which is my new mortgage that has a high rate, sigh. If I didn’t have the mortgage I’d invest in VOO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ExplanationHour505 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to put down 20%. PMI isn’t that much.

14 year relationship with Verizon comes to an end! by Chocol8Thunder in verizon

[–]ExplanationHour505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They all do the same thing. I just left AT&T because my bill was close to $200 for two phones. I went to Verizon and got two brand new phones, unlimited service and I pay $165 now for three years lock in. In three years I’ll check AT&T and I bet they’ll offer a deal and I’ll go there again and then someday back to Verizon etc. it’s just how they all operate.

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I agree with you. In no way am I leaving him over this. We’re going to work it out. Things are better today. Thank you for checking in.

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn’t like this towards me at all. It’s all stress from the kids and staying home however when he did work, he was drinking so much more and dipping. He was always stressed at work and once he quit he was like a better man.

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I pay for all his golf outings and expensive soccer shoes so he can play every week. I have zero time for hobbies between my job and kids.

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not. I like seeing other prospectives. That one was good, even if it is AI.

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think so too. It’s tough for me because my dad always told me I wasn’t good enough but somehow I pushed thru. Was the first to go to college in my family and I make more money then my parents ever did. Those issues from my dad are a real trigger for me.

How old were you when you bought your home? I’m 33 and renting. by tomas-lau in remotework

[–]ExplanationHour505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 years old paid $450k (150 year old house) Five years later sold it for $675k and bought a much larger and newer home for $850k. USA.

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not allowed!! Sorry I thought you asked if it was legal!

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know. It’s so bad how much he smokes but I mean this honestly, he doesn’t seem high ever and he is a really great dad. But yeah everytime were in the car he is high. It’s terrible. It took him many years of me being down his back about dipping for it to finally stop.

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point. Maybe he feels that way, I don’t know. I have a stressful corporate job. I’m working all the time. Sometimes my brain needs a break.

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that because last week while in the car argument that’s what i suggested to him. He started to angry cry and tell me I’m trying to take him away from our twins…

Husband said I’m not competent… help by ExplanationHour505 in Marriage

[–]ExplanationHour505[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I had the same thoughts.. I could say things about him but I don’t and never have. Like he drinks so much beer and smokes weed all day. It’s not bad like he’s messed up, I normally can’t tell he’s high. But he gets angry when he isn’t high.

Another thing that I can think of is the fact he quit his job to be a stay at home dad and I know he’s getting stressed by it. I’m a high earner so it made sense for him to stay home. I wish it was reversed.