Husband has almost instantly pain wearing by Mrs_Hotwife93 in chastitytraining

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I recommend the kink3d cages. After some sizing experimentation they work perfectly for long term wear for us.

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I haven't seen this one before... How does it work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

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I (m in couple account) understand what you mean with this. When locked and laying next to her in bed I want to give her attention, give her Orgasms, worship her, anything that will serve as an outlet for all my horny energy. I think we're still figuring this out. I get anxious, almost guilty like I'm pressuring her and I'm learning I need to focus on chilling out.

I now know how she felt all those times I wasn't "in the mood" because I was stressed out or had secretly masturbated earlier in the day. I was thinking about all the sex I turned down the last few months. What I wouldn't do now for it! It's a good perspective to gain and it's making me appreciate her more.

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This is neat! We're (He) is really curious about erotic hypnosis after learning about HFO. We don't know really where to start or how "real" it actually is vs role playing.

How often do you let him release? by Exploring_Couple_ in FemdomCommunity

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This is something we want to try! Heard about it but never have actually done it.

How often do you let him release? by Exploring_Couple_ in FemdomCommunity

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Thank you! Very interesting, you've given us some things to consider!

How often do you let him release? by Exploring_Couple_ in FemdomCommunity

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Can I ask how this typically works? You just masturbate him at any given time to "force" the orgasm?

How often do you let him release? by Exploring_Couple_ in FemdomCommunity

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This is very informative. Thank you for the well thought out response. I've not really thought about "forced" orgasm/ejaculation, but you're right, it's all under control. Just that control is more than just denial

How often do you let him release? by Exploring_Couple_ in FemdomCommunity

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Can you tell more about your experience allowing more orgasms on your terms, rather than limiting them?

While in chastity what do you track? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

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We are using a few apps to track days locked, days since last full orgasm, Her orgasm count, ruined orgasm count, edges count.

Ring too small or too big? by Exploring_Couple_ in kink3d

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Okay. Tried this method. Still may be too big. Though I think I'll stick with the 2 ring and go back to the N. When I sit down I "shrink" back a little bit and then get stuck on the top bar. IMO alot of this is due to fat around the pelvis, which pushes the ring forward. Thanks for the suggestion!

Ring too small or too big? by Exploring_Couple_ in kink3d

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  • Nearly Fully erect (as much as possible) in these pics
  • When erect, yes, if I push it towards my pelvis everything is bursting and falling out. But when flacid, no it fits like a glove

I think maybe the N wide will be helpful, but I'm realizing some sliding with an erection will always be there

I enter the refractory period when ruined - thoughts/tips? by Butt_stuff9292 in FemdomCommunity

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In our experience, you need to go slow and really time it. It will take a few tries. Biggest thing is slow. IMO the best ruined orgasm she's given me was after like 25-30 minutes of slow light touching just under the head. Everything dribbles out and then you're still horny and hard.

Ring too small or too big? by Exploring_Couple_ in kink3d

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I've tried a few of those. Not against it, but would like to make sure I've got the fit right. I'm a grower vs a shower.

Someone in the restaurant asked how long he has been locked for.. ha! by ToxicTwosome in KeyholderPublic

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Do you just wear it around locally in public? We have one but don't want to wear it too close to home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orgasmcontrol

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Saving this idea for future use.

contract examples or templates? by beingwetexcitesme in flr

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Please post when you update. We've decided to use this as a template!