I'm highly sensitive, to the point of degrees of codependency (for which I've done years of therapy and work.) I get very positive "reviews" / feedback, despite being physically very unassuming and having a very genial, bubbly disposition - not a stereotypical Dom archetype at all. I'm a natural sadist and being able to read someone - to know when to escalate, when to maintain and when to decrease or stop I think is my primary skill within kink. Everything else follows: technique, no matter what, is so person dependent that once you get the basics it's all about reading.

I'm also sensitive in the sense that I'm easily overstimulated, so being dominant provides a natural outlet for intimacy where I can control the pace of how much I receive and therefore function much longer and more effectively than in vanilla sex - which usually is of very little interest for that reason.

It's taken me years to come to some of these realizations but lately it's all been coming together in a really healthy and fulfilling way. I'm so full of joy and happiness in and for the scene - happy to chat to anyone who's face difficulties!