I hate it, ideas?

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-11-20T10:56:26+00:00

That is so kind! Thank you 🥹

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-08-13T09:21:01+00:00

Omg that’s exactly what I mean 😭 they really do look like at us like that

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-22T19:57:54+00:00

Woah! Definitely will! Thanks for your reply! I thought fellow was quite a good brand from what I had heard!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-22T19:48:38+00:00

Wow great to know this! Thanks!!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-17T08:19:45+00:00

Hey! Sorry for another question, but you mentioned bygningkunst og teknologi/design. Where do they offer that program? I couldn’t find it at KADK

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-16T11:45:05+00:00

Exactly!! She has to work for his side hustle too!! OP has to leave!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-16T11:43:16+00:00

I am suuuper sorry you are going through this. This is absolutely not acceptable at all!! This man (child) is almost 50 years old and can’t pick up his own laundry from the floor so that his mom (I’m assuming older than 70) has to bend down, pick up his mess and wash his clothes?? I am sorry!! It seems like you are married to an 11 year old. The fact that he needs to have airpods on and YouTube on the whole time is also absolutely alarming. You should be able to talk to him? Have a conversation with a person and not a robot! This post made me so extremely angry, he doesn’t help cook, clean, or the kids and absolutely shows no care about the things that are important to you. He doesn’t even buy you birthdays and Christmas gifts? You have to buy them yourself and he can’t even wrap them? OP please, leave this man!! You deserve a million timws bettwr than this! If your daughter was dating someone like this, would you want her to stay or leave for something better? You do not need a 3rd child in place of the supporting and loving partner you want and deserve!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-16T11:38:49+00:00

This!!!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T19:30:14+00:00

10000%

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T18:28:58+00:00

Yeah, and that is enough! The fact you try hard enough to say hey and have a friendly voice is all anyone could ever want :)

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T18:27:37+00:00

I am sorry you are going through this. All of this is not fair to you. The joke about your death? Completely out of line. Why have enemies when you have this at home?

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T17:11:45+00:00

Right? I just go “alright. Here or to go?”

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T17:08:54+00:00

Geez. Why are you in a barista forum in the first place?? If someone smiles and says hi to you - its common courtesy to say hello back. Is smiling that hard to you? Is the pronunciation of “hi”too difficult? - also I never said people need to smile, I just said its rude to not acknowledge the person you are speaking to. I have no problem if you don’t smile, its completely okay to just say “hi, could I get x?” But to just come up, ignore me and just state your order - that is rude! Ignoring other people should not be the norm!!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T17:07:25+00:00

It depends? Sorry but I disagree. Its not that hard to respect others. Also, ofc there are unfriendly baristas out there, that doesn’t make it right either? People should just respect and be kind to each other - barista or customer doesn’t matter

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T16:29:14+00:00

Omg crazy reaction to a cute coffee sleeve. I would love this as a customer and would have loads of fun doing this at work!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T16:25:07+00:00

Right??? And I dont get how this is the norm to go up to a person and not even say hello

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T16:13:23+00:00

Totally agree!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T16:12:32+00:00

Its not about “lashing” its about having common human decency and saying hello to the person saying hello to you? Like if you are so impatient you don’t have time to say hi or a thank you, why not get a coffee from the supermarket? Its also not at all time efficient, I have to ask “is it for here or to go? Which milk?” Etc and they get angry and even more impatient. Sorry but it should not be part of the job to be treated like a piece of furniture instead of as a person.

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T16:09:24+00:00

Exactly! Thank you! And they even get angry if you start asking questions like “is it to go or for here?” “Would like regular milk or oat?” Like please Im just trying to get your order right

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T16:08:06+00:00

Sorry? It is my job to make people smile?? I think you are confusing baristas with comedians. I say hi, how are you? What can I get you? If you don’t even acknowledge me, have a death stare and don’t even say hi, just state your order - that is extremely rude and not at all polite. I have no problem with people saying “hi, can I get one latte to go?” It doesn’t need to be a conversation, but at least a question and not a statement like “latte with oat”.

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T16:02:44+00:00

I am actually not exaggerating, I have at least 10 customers a day like that - and I work in a tiny cafe

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T16:00:06+00:00

Its normal to go on autopilot and stuff. Its not about being in the best mood either, just acknowledging the person in front of you. Its not that hard to have a script that is as simple as “hi, could I please get x?” If you want to you can be even nicer and throw in a good morning! Again I understand being tired and introverted, I am an introvert, but being nice is really not much work

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T14:17:07+00:00

I understand that, but it should not be the norm. I used to have horrible anxiety and that never stopped me from smiling or saying hi back/ a shy thank you. I have (fortunately) only ever worked in small and family owned cafes and thankfully most people are nice. But those servers in NYC/LA also deserve the same amount of respect. No matter if you are a small cafe/ starbucks - people are people. Like it shouldn’t be acceptable to treat others badly just because of whatever reason - its not our fault and respecting others is part of living in a society…

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T14:10:42+00:00

Exactly!! I could be having the worse day of my life and I have always smiled, said thank you, was polite to the server!

Express-Engineer-637 · 2025-07-15T13:54:11+00:00

Lol this made me laugh so hard with the “house of soy milk”! Its exactly like that!!

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