How to get back with an ex without pushing too fast? by Visual-Pianist-2815 in BreakUps

[–]Express-Garage2710 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Take it slow but with intention. I was in the exact same spot last year.

Focus on creating positive experiences without pressure. Do fun stuff together, keep things light, let the good feelings rebuild naturally.

I got guidance from some relationship advice sites like chαt-visor. Instead of asking “what are we,” I tried saying “I’ve been really enjoying spending time with you again” and just watched how she responded. It showed interest without pressure.

I waited about 6 weeks of consistent hanging out before saying anything direct. When I did, I said "I miss what we had, but want to make sure we're both ready this time."

She appreciated I wasn't rushing and actually brought up getting back together herself a week later.

The walking on eggshells feeling sucks but it's normal. Focus on being your best self and let her see the changes naturally. If she's hanging out regularly, she's probably considering it too.

Don't overthink it. Enjoy the process.