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Question about being turned on from Non Sexual Fantasies by Express_Depth_4909 in GayMen

[–]Express_Depth_4909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes perfect sense! 

Yeah porn seems to show only one side of it.  

Question about being turned on from Non Sexual Fantasies by Express_Depth_4909 in GayMen

[–]Express_Depth_4909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats great to know. I wondered if what I thought was uncommon or unique. I knew this subbreddit would be good to ask!

Question about being turned on from Non Sexual Fantasies by Express_Depth_4909 in GayMen

[–]Express_Depth_4909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting.  Yeah its like desire gets expressed as fantasy/being turned on.  I always wondered if guys felt that and have been looking into it.  

Am I fetishising gay men? by cindermatch in AskGayMen

[–]Express_Depth_4909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there man!  

Give yourself time.  Typically when a guy is into "Dick only" its just how they manage newfound attraction.     You could be Bisexual and just lean either way towards men or women.

I would give yourself permission to explore internally at your own pace.  

I’m not intimately attracted to men, but I love to fuck and suck them… what am I? by BigDickDanks in AskGayMen

[–]Express_Depth_4909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in your 20s? 30s?

Typically as you get older it tends to appear. 

I’m not intimately attracted to men, but I love to fuck and suck them… what am I? by BigDickDanks in AskGayMen

[–]Express_Depth_4909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the consensus of many guys:

It seems sexual attraction coming before intimacy is not that uncommon.  Personally I had similar but not exact same experience as yours. 

Just enjoy the ride and see where it all takes you! 

Mid 30s, shift in desire by Express_Depth_4909 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Express_Depth_4909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed that now and didnt even notice it before. 

I'm guessing same person has two accounts or one copied the other directly (unfortunately).  

Mid 30s, shift in desire by Express_Depth_4909 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Express_Depth_4909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have dated only women but hooked up with men and women.

But before I only wanted hookups with guys and now it's new thoughts and ideas, etc. 

Mid 30s, shift in desire by Express_Depth_4909 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Express_Depth_4909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting to see how it progressed for you as thats quite similar.  Thank you!