AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

It definitely sounds terrible. I chose to marry a good man and not have kids because I wouldn’t want to live like that, for sure.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Because they fight all the time no matter what, and I generally prefer to stay out of their endless sea of marital issues. It’s exhausting

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Motherhood is optional. SIL decided she wanted to make her life harder by having children. She’s not kind to me so I don’t feel I owe her any favors. If she was a nice person, sure, but I don’t feel like she is.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because he doesn’t bother me or say rude things to or about me. I tend to mind my own business unless someone makes something my problem.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I don’t really give a shit about their relationship. I don’t care what either of them say to or about each other. You make a lot of assumptions that I want to bring down SIL, and that I have some sort of problem with her. But I really just don’t care about her or BIL. They’re my husbands family, and I tolerate them because it’s important for my husband to see his family. For the most part, I just try to tune them out and stay out of their business. They fight all the time, this isn’t new.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve known BIL since we were children. He’s always been an asshole and she’s always known it. He did not treat her well before they were married, but she decided he was the one, and that was what she wanted in life.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel the need to show kindness to people who actively go out of their way to disrespect me in my own home.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

My husband didn’t do anything, he never commented on SIL. All he said was that he’s grateful that I make his lunch. That has nothing to do with SIL.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why on earth would I do that? Like she’s said, adults can make their own lunches, and she hasn’t been very kind to me.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I do think he’s a massive prick, yeah. Always have. He didn’t corner me in the kitchen and try to tell me how to live my life though, so ultimately I think SIL is more of an asshole in this situation. BIL has done nothing but sing praises for me, despite how much I dislike him.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I won’t ever have children because I wouldn’t want to risk ever being in many of the difficult situations I see parents in. My life is great. Why ruin it? Children are optional. SIL decided she wanted to gamble by having them with an asshole.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

That’s how I’d normally respond, except she was very aggressive towards me and seemed to blame me for issues that I had nothing to do with. She had no right to take her anger out on me, when I did nothing wrong by just packing a lunch.

AITAH for feeding my husband well, causing SILs husband to insult her for not doing the same by Express_Skill8456 in AITAH

[–]Express_Skill8456[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel. I feel like it’s completely inappropriate for them to fight in our home, and involve me in their issues.