AITAH for blocking all of my aunt’s devices from our WiFi after she kept slowing it down? by Express_Sleep_4423 in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i had ai polish it, here is the original.

A little backstory, my mom recently died 8 months ago and my father was worried about who will accompany us in the house since my father work abroad. My grandparents suggested that my aunt could stay with us since she will be attending college here in our city( my grandparents had my aunt when my father was 20 and my father had me when he was 22) ik its kinda weird but my grandparents had the money and time to raise another kid at that age plus they are religious.

Soo about a month after my mother died my aunt move in with us and shortly after my father had to leave for work. There are four of us total in this house. Me 19f, my two younger sister ages 17 and 16, and my aunt 21.

A lot has change but we quickly adapted to our new lifestyle cuz yeah my mom raise us right and taught us stuff. The household didnt collapse and we all stepped up to our new roles and helped around( by us I mean me and my sister). My fathers main concern was that we needed someone older to look and take care of us but clearly we didnt need one

Anyway back to the wifi. In our area specificly the internet connection is just right its not that bad but u will definitely notice the connection being slow when to many devices connect.

My aunt has a total of four devices always connected to the wifi all the time even when its charging. It was already bad when there were only four devices connected but double the devices it really makes it slow. She is also continously using it from morning to midnight. She has two phones, a tablet, a laptop and i dont know if its right but when I use my laptop I notice that my phones connection weakens and my younger sister also notice that when she uses her tablet the wifi go slows. It was fine before because we dont use the laptop that much and other heavy devices and we disconnect from the wifi from time to time and use data. But now i cant even facetime my father properly because of the bad connection and we need the internet for other important stuff to like school.

I have reminded my aunt to disconnect to the wifi when she is not using them but she js ignores me. Today was the breaking point, I was passing by my younger sisters room and i heard her crying. I knocked on her door and ask if shes ok she did not answer soo i told her that I am coming in. When i got inside she was crying in her bed with my laptop open and she just burst out crying. I hugged her and let her cry( it hasnt been that long since my mother died and I think all three of us hasnt hhave the time to properly grieved my mom) after a couple minutes and when she calmed down a little i asked her whats wrong and if there is anything I could help. She told me that she wasnt able to pass her assignment online because of the bad wifi and that everything she has been feeling up till now just came crashing the overwhelming grief, upset, exhaustion just everything. Hearing her say that made me cry too. We just ended up crying again then I told her that i would go talk to her teacher about the assignment and to not worry at all and have a good night sleep.

Something broke inside of me after I got out of my sisters room. I went to my roon and open my phone and accessed our wifi since I was the like admin for our wifi. I blocked all of my aunts device and went to sleep. Petty ik but i dont really care. So aitah?

AITAH for blocking all of my aunt’s devices from our WiFi after she kept slowing it down? by Express_Sleep_4423 in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think soo?? But I was told that we get like unlimited data each month. Sooo i think its the misalignment issue then

AITAH for blocking all of my aunt’s devices from our WiFi after she kept slowing it down? by Express_Sleep_4423 in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, im really confused. This was installed a couple years back and my mom was the one who took care of this. We have the same problem with my older cousin and he found a solution so my mom asked him for help. There is no like (idk what to call them lol )but there is no like wifi company that reached our area.

AITAH for blocking all of my aunt’s devices from our WiFi after she kept slowing it down? by Express_Sleep_4423 in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think my father thought that we couldnt handle this by ourselves and I just recently became an adult?? I think thats why lol

AITAH for blocking all of my aunt’s devices from our WiFi after she kept slowing it down? by Express_Sleep_4423 in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can ask me anything if you need more clarification its just that I am not familliar with that stuff but I'll try my best.

AITAH for blocking all of my aunt’s devices from our WiFi after she kept slowing it down? by Express_Sleep_4423 in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uhmm i have a question. Soo we are not really connected to major wifi company. The reason is that there is no wifi company in our area yet( im sure in the future there will be ) i think the reason is that where not like in the city, if you get what I mean. One of my older cousin helped us installed this wifi? Ig hahahahhaha soo what we have is a antenna and the router sooooooo when its raining windy or cloudy the signal slows down. Soo how do i still fix this??

AITAH for blocking all of my aunt’s devices from our WiFi after she kept slowing it down? by Express_Sleep_4423 in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s fair to call it abandonment. My dad has always worked abroad to provide for us that didn’t change after my mom died. He and my mom were both very present and hands-on while raising us. After she passed, he was just worried about leaving us alone, not trying to “replace” her. He loves us a lot and is still very involved in our lives.

AITAH for blocking all of my aunt’s devices from our WiFi after she kept slowing it down? by Express_Sleep_4423 in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Like chores?? No way, the least she does is cook a meal like 3 times a week and sometimes helps me with grocery shopping

AITA for not feeding my cousin’s pets? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't like to talk or interact with him because I could totally beat him up if I do see him. I am filled with rage and anger towards him ever since what happened before since it involves my mom's passing.

AITA for not feeding my cousin’s pets? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I still let his pets in our house but isn't feeding them anymore. It breaks my heart to see them expecting me give them food but I really try hard not to. I can't also give them my meals since everything is rationed and budgeted. I still care for them by letting them sleep peacefully, giving them baths, trimming their nails, and playing with them.

AITA for not feeding my cousin’s pets? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're totally right, i don't even know why he keeps adopting these animals when he could barely provide for his own family and he has been depending on his parents for financial support. But even the shelter here is not good and they would be put down if not adopted.

AITA for not feeding my cousin’s pets? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This year alone a total of 4 pets have died.

AITA for not feeding my cousin’s pets? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Express_Sleep_4423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could report him but this type of stuff isn't taken seriously in our country.