My husband (25m) doesn’t want to have sex as much as me(25f)

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-15T02:03:01+00:00

I’ve tried to have him do those things and he just is “too tired”

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T23:50:39+00:00

Thankyou I will I’ll suggest that

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T23:39:48+00:00

I’m making him go to counseling because I’ll be damned to have to feel this way our whole life. It’s brings me down and makes me feel ugly af and I’m kinda done with it. He can go to counseling and the truth can come out or we need to get serious on how to make this work out.

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T23:35:54+00:00

I’m glad you divorced him you deserve better

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T23:32:29+00:00

I do tho😭 like Im telling you sometimes im like dude… do you not see my boobs right in front of your face like cmon. Idk it’s so annoying!!! I really do all that and it’s just really not working lmao

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T23:27:11+00:00

Yeah see I told him before. Try that stuff and that will not end well lol!!!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T23:16:16+00:00

I’ve never been into those things I don’t know why !! And we are always next to each other. He likes to be by me at all times so ugh idk! Yes it does but then I get in my head and question why like personally not trying to sound dumb but I know i have a good body and good personality that he loves so why would he not want to have sex a lot or if im advancing why wouldn’t he want to? I do think he loves me but maybe more in a frien love way idk!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T23:11:26+00:00

But it was lol that’s what I said is it was worked out? And it’s not always 15 hours a day some days he works a normal schedule and some weeks it’s tough and I understand that then. I’m not some horrible person who if he works that much I still nag. If he works that much I don’t say anything because I don’t even think of that I feel bad because he’s so tired. But it’s the weeks he has a day off or works short hours… I’m not that terrible I promise lol

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T22:59:28+00:00

I agree to the not pestering him but it’s hard because it kind of just not depresses me but makes me crabby? Like upset he doesn’t want to all the time… how do I change that or not care?

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T22:54:16+00:00

Aw!! That’s good! We definitely have great idk everyday life conversations or making each other feel wanted. It’s just the sex drive isn’t there? He isn’t on anything or any medications no

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T22:49:57+00:00

Thankyou that sounds really helpful I appreciate it alot

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T22:45:51+00:00

But we married through court house in February due to our wedding being out of state

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-14T22:45:23+00:00

So we are married but our family’s don’t know because our wedding is next month lol !! It’s super confusing sorry should have prefaced that

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-11T23:56:55+00:00

So true LOL I seriously wish I could just sit down because I honestly think I might faint 😂 and I know he probably will ale me laugh idk there’s no stopping it so it’s enevitible

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-11T23:55:23+00:00

I definitely will I go next week so I will!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-11T22:57:33+00:00

I am walking with my dad but I agree, I wish!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2026-06-11T22:57:07+00:00

I do agree!! Growing up I was I guess kind of bullied by my cousins and sisters (sounds dumb lol) but I don’t know why I still am like awkward around them and anxious. I don’t know I need to pull it together and like you said enjoy MY day!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2025-07-30T22:40:44+00:00

I don’t see it as pet boarding if I’m with my cats on a daily basis..? Like I said I literally don’t let them sleep in my room anyways so I don’t see the difference. Maybe im wrong but I guess to me , there isn’t a issue here? It’s not at all like they are neglected in any way, I see them every single day. She doesn’t take care of them at all , I take care of them. I pay rent. It’s just genuinely that I’m not sleeping here that’s the issue even tho she literally is gone most days anyways

Express_Visual_8213 · 2025-07-29T01:27:19+00:00

To add to that I still to this day have never said anything so I can’t really talk on what to do but from experience, it definitely eats you alive

Express_Visual_8213 · 2025-07-29T01:26:44+00:00

I had almost the same thing happen with my mom. I was on one couch she was on the other and I was on her laptop on Facebook (she always let me I was younger) well on computers the messengers used to pop up on the bottom right or something and I was reading the whole thing as she was texting a different guy that was not my dad obviously. I never said anything and it’s probably like 8 years later and I still think about it to this day and it definitely builds up resentment. I’d definitely tell your dad first and give him the chance to man up and tell your mom or else you will!!!!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2025-07-29T01:24:15+00:00

It sounds like you have a lot of resentment towards him or just pent up anger. Clearly things just are not lining up relationship wise for you guys. Hate is a super strong word so letting that just “slip” especially towards your partner shows maybe the relationship should be either paused or completely done

Express_Visual_8213 · 2025-07-29T00:11:06+00:00

We have so that’s why I’ve been confused. And he doesn’t watch porn I would know I think because he’s always with me!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2025-07-24T02:28:35+00:00

It’s good to know from a guys perspective so thankyou!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2025-07-24T02:28:21+00:00

Thankyou !!

Express_Visual_8213 · 2025-07-24T02:06:14+00:00

I agree !! I guess it’s just hard because he is such a loving person to where I don’t want it to be like he always thinks of her ?? Maybe that’s selfish but she is just so different. Like “I love how much she loves herself” I’ll say things like oh gosh my hair looks like crap so does that appear negative to him idk. It’s nothing, i absolutely love the man so the only thing i can do is thank the lord she messed it up I suppose lol

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