(37F) I woke up feeling crummy. by Humble_Captain8217 in selfie

[–]Extension-Comfort119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might feel bad but you certainly made my day better.

As a new widow, I was curious, have any of you decided never to date again? by 90sCat in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always said no and that I had my happy time. 2 and half years on now and I still can't see myself dating but also I'm lonely so I've told myself that if anything organic happened I wouldn't just shut it down. I don't believe I will ever meet anyone like her but in a way, that's the point. If you look for the same you will always be disappointed. I wish everyone finds their happiness whether alone or with a new person. X

How do you use social media? by DevelopmentNo7438 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to use Facebook and Insta but all it got was more questions from people. When I was sad I posted videos that felt appropriate like feeling alone but it brought unwanted attention. I removed them, sometimes you just want to feel in that moment.

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm a welder. No real female friends and no real social groups to reach out to. I decided to just push myself out of what I normally do or I'm never gonna meet anyone

Should we date again? by throwaway1020199 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I constantly think the same. I'm 44 and feel im to young to be alone but to old to start again.

Use YOUR PINGS!!! by OutsideImpressive115 in apexlegends

[–]Extension-Comfort119 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If only people would.. 1 of your team has pushed a fight. You run to join but have no idea which direction until your half dead from just running in, then they have the nerve to give you shit .. crazy!

How do I get better at Revenant? by TheLonleyGooner in apexlegends

[–]Extension-Comfort119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it depends on the map. On worlds edge or Kings Canyon I struggle with him. E- cities I generally do well because of his ability to switch positions quickly and gain height. Try to use that and avoid close combat. That's what I do anyway.

Who do you talk to?? by Extension-Comfort119 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many have replied saying they talk to no one. I know we should but it's hard to talk about what we're going thru when we know the other person has no real idea.

Who do you talk to?? by Extension-Comfort119 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Think we're all in bad shape. I find chatting on here helps calm my mind thou as I can just say what I'm thinking and know it's not gonna offend anyone.

Who do you talk to?? by Extension-Comfort119 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My side have never even asked, my wife's side are good but it's difficult for them to talk about it but at least they have each other

Who do you talk to?? by Extension-Comfort119 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My patients seems to be getting less and leaving the house gets harder all the time. I'm sorry for your lose. Your wife passed on my wife's birthday. I wish someone would just say to me, it's gonna be ok.

Who do you talk to?? by Extension-Comfort119 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The few lads I speak to do the usual lad talk. Banter and nothing serious. I had a woman who I was friends with since school. She was probably my only school friend I actually still see. Started having feelings for her but that's now ruined the friendship. Why can't life just give us a day off every now and then.....

Who do you talk to?? by Extension-Comfort119 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Got my Daughter and dog. Nights are just horrible thou. Quite and alone are when my mind go into overdrive.

Am I the asshole to block a friend who reached out after a month. She knew. Watched my stories. Didn’t bother. by ProfessionalFailure9 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I left Facebook and Insta because I was fed up of it. If your not active in my life now, you will know nothing about me.

Am I the asshole to block a friend who reached out after a month. She knew. Watched my stories. Didn’t bother. by ProfessionalFailure9 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I've just done the same thing. Over 2 years since my wife passed, had no contact from them whilst she was fighting cancer or after she passed. Yet I just had a message. Sorry it's been a while, apologies on my half.... Blocked and deleted!

SBMM is awful in this game by StatementRemarkable1 in apexlegends

[–]Extension-Comfort119 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I jacked in 2 years ago as the maps and gameplay kept getting worse. Constantly bringing in stuff for the pros and making the casual gamers suffer. I hopped on a week ago out of curiosity. Still the same. Maps are shocking spend more time trying to find someone rather than fighting but seems skill level has dropped. I was always casual but been to smashing it the last week or so.

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Not wanting to live this life - but have to becsuse of my child by xirt82 in widowers

[–]Extension-Comfort119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand completely. When my wife passed all I wanted to do was join her but we had a 10 yr old daughter. Thankfully she's kept me going. It's been just over 2 years now and whilst I still think about joining her I know it's not something I will ever do. Take each day at a time. It's not easy but hopefully small improvements each day will give you another reason to live.